1 00:00:30,730 --> 00:00:28,750 archangels ghosts and Bigfoot oh my it's 2 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:30,740 just another night for Supernatural 3 00:00:36,280 --> 00:00:33,890 girls real stories real answers to 4 00:00:38,799 --> 00:00:36,290 life's biggest supernatural mysteries 5 00:00:41,530 --> 00:00:38,809 and now for another exciting interview 6 00:00:44,290 --> 00:00:41,540 with Errol experts in this world and 7 00:00:47,319 --> 00:00:44,300 others here's your host paranormal 8 00:00:47,650 --> 00:00:47,329 researcher Patricia Baker on the one the 9 00:01:05,980 --> 00:00:47,660 only 10 00:01:11,240 --> 00:01:08,450 welcome everyone to another exciting 11 00:01:13,670 --> 00:01:11,250 episode of Supernatural girls radio 12 00:01:15,710 --> 00:01:13,680 I'm your host Patricia Baker I am here 13 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:15,720 with my co-host all the way from sunny 14 00:01:22,780 --> 00:01:18,930 Tucson at 104 degrees PK Patricia 15 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:22,790 Kirkman are you doing tonight PK I am 16 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:25,770 absolutely aesthetic can't wait for our 17 00:01:30,590 --> 00:01:28,290 show tonight I know we've got a terrific 18 00:01:34,010 --> 00:01:30,600 guest oh yeah always having to guess but 19 00:01:35,359 --> 00:01:34,020 we don't get wait also this isn't super 20 00:01:39,020 --> 00:01:35,369 subject you know it's one of our 21 00:01:41,270 --> 00:01:39,030 favorites dreaming well I find everybody 22 00:01:43,249 --> 00:01:41,280 dreams but me so I can't wait to talk to 23 00:01:45,649 --> 00:01:43,259 Tom well Tom's gonna straighten you 24 00:01:49,430 --> 00:01:45,659 right out I mean god I hope so help you 25 00:01:51,919 --> 00:01:49,440 he's gonna help all of us and inspire us 26 00:01:54,050 --> 00:01:51,929 to get interested in our dreaming minds 27 00:01:56,090 --> 00:01:54,060 again because it's a really important 28 00:01:59,059 --> 00:01:56,100 part of our consciousness and I think 29 00:02:01,460 --> 00:01:59,069 overall our culture has gone a little 30 00:02:04,309 --> 00:02:01,470 too crazy we've kind of forgotten about 31 00:02:07,460 --> 00:02:04,319 it so we never bring this back and Tom 32 00:02:09,529 --> 00:02:07,470 Verner is the one to do it and he's here 33 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:09,539 with us tonight he's the author of a 34 00:02:14,570 --> 00:02:11,610 tremendous book that we both read called 35 00:02:17,449 --> 00:02:14,580 the transformational power of dreaming 36 00:02:19,610 --> 00:02:17,459 there it is we love this book and he's 37 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:19,620 the co-author with Stephen Larson but 38 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:22,050 Tom is a spokesperson tonight we're 39 00:02:27,589 --> 00:02:24,090 gonna bring him on in a few minutes but 40 00:02:31,070 --> 00:02:27,599 first my goodness we've all survived 41 00:02:32,270 --> 00:02:31,080 hurricane mmm-hmm it's easy to survive 42 00:02:33,890 --> 00:02:32,280 when you're in Tucson I'm in 43 00:02:35,059 --> 00:02:33,900 Massachusetts right that's very true 44 00:02:36,890 --> 00:02:35,069 that's very true 45 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:36,900 ask those that in the middle of it not 46 00:02:41,900 --> 00:02:39,450 so much not so much and we have a dear 47 00:02:44,660 --> 00:02:41,910 friend down there in Florida but he did 48 00:02:48,759 --> 00:02:44,670 make out okay he's all right yeah I just 49 00:02:51,710 --> 00:02:48,769 a bit of this you can fly that's right 50 00:02:54,229 --> 00:02:51,720 so anyways but our our hearts and minds 51 00:02:56,030 --> 00:02:54,239 and prayers still go to the people there 52 00:02:58,460 --> 00:02:56,040 that are still doing the cleanup still 53 00:03:00,920 --> 00:02:58,470 trying to find a way out of the mess 54 00:03:02,900 --> 00:03:00,930 that this created well had a mass prayer 55 00:03:05,660 --> 00:03:02,910 group that went on I said it to 56 00:03:07,130 --> 00:03:05,670 everybody I knew and it was hundreds of 57 00:03:09,860 --> 00:03:07,140 people that came together for prayers 58 00:03:12,170 --> 00:03:09,870 the day after this hit yes I'm so 59 00:03:14,059 --> 00:03:12,180 grateful to them for being 60 00:03:17,300 --> 00:03:14,069 so kind and stopping their day at noon 61 00:03:19,399 --> 00:03:17,310 to join together just so important for 62 00:03:20,990 --> 00:03:19,409 us to do that because as we all know and 63 00:03:21,649 --> 00:03:21,000 two or more gathered anything is 64 00:03:24,979 --> 00:03:21,659 possible 65 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:24,989 oh so being a part of a prayer group is 66 00:03:30,349 --> 00:03:27,090 a in a prayer chain is a great thing in 67 00:03:32,119 --> 00:03:30,359 today's crazy world where we have some 68 00:03:35,390 --> 00:03:32,129 nut over there in North Korea with his 69 00:03:38,259 --> 00:03:35,400 finger on the button and in all kinds of 70 00:03:40,670 --> 00:03:38,269 other things going on so tell us 71 00:03:43,369 --> 00:03:40,680 numerologically PK what's happening 72 00:03:46,399 --> 00:03:43,379 we're still in that shadow period every 73 00:03:48,500 --> 00:03:46,409 shadow period until the 15th and 74 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:48,510 supposedly it disappears my god I pray 75 00:03:53,839 --> 00:03:52,290 so but the the month itself is for 76 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:53,849 everyone if you hadn't heard it before 77 00:04:01,160 --> 00:03:56,250 but that's as an echo chamber it is a 78 00:04:04,099 --> 00:04:01,170 review of last year okay we're all tree 79 00:04:06,860 --> 00:04:04,109 reviewing the year but the thing that's 80 00:04:09,379 --> 00:04:06,870 so important today is it's a five-day 81 00:04:11,839 --> 00:04:09,389 which deals with change major change 82 00:04:15,259 --> 00:04:11,849 good to bad bad to good everything seems 83 00:04:17,750 --> 00:04:15,269 to be moving faster it's trying to ride 84 00:04:20,659 --> 00:04:17,760 the bicycle down the hill and you can't 85 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:20,669 put your foot on the pedals well that's 86 00:04:24,770 --> 00:04:23,250 what the day is all about yeah if you'll 87 00:04:27,020 --> 00:04:24,780 pay attention later you'll see that 88 00:04:28,760 --> 00:04:27,030 there been more accidents today more 89 00:04:32,270 --> 00:04:28,770 people doing skits of crazy things 90 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:32,280 because the five brings out this I got 91 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:33,810 to do it in a hurry got to do it the 92 00:04:39,890 --> 00:04:36,330 quick fix but then on the other half is 93 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:39,900 a Kenny Rogers are I should the the 94 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:43,530 gambler song the gambler that there's a 95 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:45,570 luck factor that goes with today if 96 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:48,090 you're lucky enough to have those odds 97 00:04:52,490 --> 00:04:50,970 in your chart me I keep looking at him I 98 00:05:04,580 --> 00:04:52,500 want to play him and I look at the 99 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:04,590 numbers they look at me and they go but 100 00:05:10,010 --> 00:05:07,289 it is all about quick change and that's 101 00:05:13,070 --> 00:05:10,020 the part that's important let change 102 00:05:15,830 --> 00:05:13,080 move us from one spot into something 103 00:05:18,379 --> 00:05:15,840 that's better why not open up the arms 104 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:18,389 wide and go for the good stuff yes we 105 00:05:22,459 --> 00:05:20,610 deserve it it's been a real roller 106 00:05:23,690 --> 00:05:22,469 coaster ride and the mercury retrograde 107 00:05:24,430 --> 00:05:23,700 didn't help anything 108 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:24,440 that's for 109 00:05:29,500 --> 00:05:27,770 no it did not no but it's good they were 110 00:05:31,630 --> 00:05:29,510 at the tail end of it let's hope we can 111 00:05:34,660 --> 00:05:31,640 keep this moving forward in a good way 112 00:05:36,940 --> 00:05:34,670 that's great PK thank you and we had 113 00:05:39,520 --> 00:05:36,950 some some some really interesting 114 00:05:41,890 --> 00:05:39,530 paranormal news stories now first and 115 00:05:47,260 --> 00:05:41,900 foremost the one on our driveway here 116 00:05:49,780 --> 00:05:47,270 yes I reposted these pictures because I 117 00:05:52,180 --> 00:05:49,790 wanted it to be seen first and foremost 118 00:05:54,220 --> 00:05:52,190 by our listeners so please go to our 119 00:05:58,270 --> 00:05:54,230 Facebook page Supernatural girls on 120 00:06:02,020 --> 00:05:58,280 Facebook you will see three photos that 121 00:06:05,260 --> 00:06:02,030 have no explanation you will see the 122 00:06:08,140 --> 00:06:05,270 first photo which is a big huge ball of 123 00:06:10,630 --> 00:06:08,150 light with streams of light coming from 124 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:10,640 it and it almost looks like two feet 125 00:06:15,310 --> 00:06:12,730 underneath it or a trail or something 126 00:06:17,530 --> 00:06:15,320 mm-hmm there's a deer off to the 127 00:06:20,590 --> 00:06:17,540 left-hand side that is standing there 128 00:06:22,180 --> 00:06:20,600 and let me tell you there is no lighting 129 00:06:24,280 --> 00:06:22,190 on our driveway we have a driveway 130 00:06:27,010 --> 00:06:24,290 that's almost a mile long there are no 131 00:06:30,610 --> 00:06:27,020 lights on the driveway there are no 132 00:06:33,190 --> 00:06:30,620 lights in the entire town by the way if 133 00:06:35,530 --> 00:06:33,200 there are no streetlights at all so 134 00:06:38,350 --> 00:06:35,540 where this came from I can't tell you 135 00:06:40,300 --> 00:06:38,360 but this showed up on the trail cam then 136 00:06:42,790 --> 00:06:40,310 there were two more photos taken in 137 00:06:45,280 --> 00:06:42,800 succession the other thing that's weird 138 00:06:47,890 --> 00:06:45,290 about these photos and I want everybody 139 00:06:51,310 --> 00:06:47,900 to know this camera is set up to take 140 00:06:54,390 --> 00:06:51,320 photos every three seconds yet these 141 00:06:57,100 --> 00:06:54,400 photos were taken almost simultaneously 142 00:06:59,470 --> 00:06:57,110 so they happened boom boom boom one 143 00:07:02,320 --> 00:06:59,480 after another and there was only a 144 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:02,330 fraction of a second in between so this 145 00:07:07,510 --> 00:07:05,090 is highly unusual and we've had as you 146 00:07:10,390 --> 00:07:07,520 know and all our listeners know that 147 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:10,400 have been had with us for years now we 148 00:07:14,950 --> 00:07:12,530 have had this happen before 149 00:07:17,830 --> 00:07:14,960 this is a portal on the right side of 150 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:17,840 the driveway and things come through so 151 00:07:23,020 --> 00:07:19,970 this is the latest of what has come 152 00:07:26,140 --> 00:07:23,030 through to visit us we again don't know 153 00:07:27,580 --> 00:07:26,150 what it is it's we've asked people for 154 00:07:29,980 --> 00:07:27,590 their input we're asking you our 155 00:07:31,900 --> 00:07:29,990 audience to take a look let us know what 156 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:31,910 you think it is see if you can tune in 157 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:34,250 and figure out what in the world this is 158 00:07:38,020 --> 00:07:35,810 it came through the portal that night 159 00:07:41,470 --> 00:07:38,030 it's fascinating 160 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:41,480 well and also you have the negative yes 161 00:07:46,480 --> 00:07:44,690 doesn't let you see through now Bob Luca 162 00:07:48,130 --> 00:07:46,490 who's a dear friend of ours and was on 163 00:07:50,170 --> 00:07:48,140 the show a few weeks ago they have a new 164 00:07:53,770 --> 00:07:50,180 book called lifting the veil he and his 165 00:07:55,870 --> 00:07:53,780 wife Betty Andres and Luca Bob took the 166 00:07:57,940 --> 00:07:55,880 photograph the first one and did a 167 00:08:00,820 --> 00:07:57,950 negative of it and one of the things 168 00:08:03,040 --> 00:08:00,830 that he said was this object is solid 169 00:08:05,170 --> 00:08:03,050 there's no question about it so it's not 170 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:05,180 something on the lens of the camera it's 171 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:08,090 not like a little bubble of water or 172 00:08:12,490 --> 00:08:09,770 whenever it's not there's something 173 00:08:14,590 --> 00:08:12,500 solid there and that's also on our 174 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:14,600 Facebook page so take a look at that as 175 00:08:20,260 --> 00:08:18,410 well you will be our participant in this 176 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:20,270 paranormal experiment we want to know 177 00:08:24,490 --> 00:08:23,090 what you think this is so this is a real 178 00:08:27,490 --> 00:08:24,500 deal everybody I don't know how to 179 00:08:29,950 --> 00:08:27,500 Photoshop anything so it's either get 180 00:08:33,399 --> 00:08:29,960 what it is whatever comes out on the 181 00:08:36,700 --> 00:08:33,409 camera you get it for all the world to 182 00:08:40,060 --> 00:08:36,710 see so anyways we also have some other 183 00:08:43,170 --> 00:08:40,070 great stories that we posted today now 184 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:43,180 we have that strange unfortunate it 185 00:08:47,050 --> 00:08:45,290 unfortunately resulted in the death of 186 00:08:50,560 --> 00:08:47,060 the pilot right there was an aircraft 187 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:50,570 from area 51 that crashed but they are 188 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:54,050 not releasing anything no details on 189 00:08:58,120 --> 00:08:55,490 this crap so what does that tell you 190 00:08:59,770 --> 00:08:58,130 three days after is with it announced 191 00:09:01,780 --> 00:08:59,780 that he was had passed because of the 192 00:09:04,350 --> 00:09:01,790 crash we still don't know what kind of a 193 00:09:07,540 --> 00:09:04,360 plane it was it's just very unusual 194 00:09:11,829 --> 00:09:07,550 highly he's active isn't he active duty 195 00:09:14,530 --> 00:09:11,839 as well I do yes yes so that's very 196 00:09:16,390 --> 00:09:14,540 unusual and you know because you were we 197 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:16,400 worked with the military so you know 198 00:09:21,700 --> 00:09:17,930 them they don't usually do things like 199 00:09:23,560 --> 00:09:21,710 that so we have to take a wild guess and 200 00:09:27,810 --> 00:09:23,570 think that perhaps this is one of the 201 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:27,820 back-engineered UFO types of craft and 202 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:31,370 it is something that we all need to pay 203 00:09:35,170 --> 00:09:33,290 attention to now we don't need just 204 00:09:36,970 --> 00:09:35,180 closure from the government everybody we 205 00:09:38,610 --> 00:09:36,980 know they're here and we know we've been 206 00:09:41,079 --> 00:09:38,620 back-engineering these types of things 207 00:09:43,570 --> 00:09:41,089 and we're sad to hear that somebody lost 208 00:09:46,900 --> 00:09:43,580 their life and one of these tests 209 00:09:50,020 --> 00:09:46,910 flights but again there it is area 51 210 00:09:51,370 --> 00:09:50,030 that's what happened there now he can 211 00:09:51,820 --> 00:09:51,380 you found something interesting 212 00:09:55,450 --> 00:09:51,830 Oh 213 00:09:57,610 --> 00:09:55,460 yes what well about a couple weeks ago 214 00:09:59,890 --> 00:09:57,620 my sister sent this picture of a cloud 215 00:10:02,290 --> 00:09:59,900 which looked like a like an odd like as 216 00:10:02,980 --> 00:10:02,300 a dish but it was definitely a cloud it 217 00:10:06,340 --> 00:10:02,990 was pink 218 00:10:09,010 --> 00:10:06,350 it was very fluffy but it was it looked 219 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:09,020 like a you have some conference yes so 220 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:11,290 as we were looking at the pilot 221 00:10:14,620 --> 00:10:13,130 situation that we're looking at right 222 00:10:19,570 --> 00:10:14,630 below it it was talking about another 223 00:10:22,390 --> 00:10:19,580 UFO thing that took place five years ago 224 00:10:24,580 --> 00:10:22,400 was the same type of cloud the only 225 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:24,590 difference is it's long it's narrow 226 00:10:29,290 --> 00:10:27,290 this one's elongated but outside of that 227 00:10:31,330 --> 00:10:29,300 the colors in it are the same in 228 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:31,340 whatever so whatever's up there playing 229 00:10:36,730 --> 00:10:34,250 around they better start giving us some 230 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:36,740 answers that's right we want a 231 00:10:41,140 --> 00:10:39,050 conversation so they're welcome you're 232 00:10:42,490 --> 00:10:41,150 welcome to your house in Tucson to my 233 00:10:45,190 --> 00:10:42,500 house here they can come and visit 234 00:10:46,830 --> 00:10:45,200 definitely we are happy to have these 235 00:10:48,730 --> 00:10:46,840 conversations with these 236 00:10:50,920 --> 00:10:48,740 extraterrestrials or interdimensional 237 00:10:53,530 --> 00:10:50,930 whatever they may be or a combination 238 00:10:56,980 --> 00:10:53,540 thereof but we know they're here it's 239 00:10:58,720 --> 00:10:56,990 it's well-documented so those are such 240 00:11:00,280 --> 00:10:58,730 just some of the stories that you're 241 00:11:02,770 --> 00:11:00,290 gonna see there's also there's many 242 00:11:06,070 --> 00:11:02,780 others there's a Viking woman who is 243 00:11:07,780 --> 00:11:06,080 found in a grave of warrior that's an 244 00:11:09,700 --> 00:11:07,790 interesting story as well so take a look 245 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:09,710 everybody at our Facebook page give us a 246 00:11:14,530 --> 00:11:12,410 like follow us on facebook follow us on 247 00:11:16,540 --> 00:11:14,540 twitter and sign up for the fringe files 248 00:11:19,270 --> 00:11:16,550 newsletter so you can keep abreast of 249 00:11:21,430 --> 00:11:19,280 what we're doing and who's coming up on 250 00:11:23,740 --> 00:11:21,440 the show is you've got always great 251 00:11:25,570 --> 00:11:23,750 guests for you the best of the best 252 00:11:28,810 --> 00:11:25,580 we've got him right here on supernatural 253 00:11:32,500 --> 00:11:28,820 girls radio like tonight's it's like 254 00:11:36,390 --> 00:11:32,510 tonight we've got the best of the best 255 00:11:39,450 --> 00:11:36,400 once again we have with us the author of 256 00:11:42,820 --> 00:11:39,460 the transformational power of dreaming 257 00:11:45,370 --> 00:11:42,830 discovering the wishes of the soul is a 258 00:11:47,320 --> 00:11:45,380 very powerful book and the co-author 259 00:11:49,990 --> 00:11:47,330 again is Steven Larson we're gonna give 260 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:50,000 him some credit as well but our guest 261 00:11:56,350 --> 00:11:53,330 tonight is Tom Verner and he is a 262 00:11:58,600 --> 00:11:56,360 practicing psychotherapist and also 263 00:12:00,760 --> 00:11:58,610 we're going to talk about later he has 264 00:12:03,610 --> 00:12:00,770 some very interesting things he does 265 00:12:05,410 --> 00:12:03,620 with children as a professional magician 266 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:05,420 now tom was 267 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:07,250 also a professor of psychology at 268 00:12:13,270 --> 00:12:10,970 Burlington College for 35 years and he's 269 00:12:15,370 --> 00:12:13,280 a specialist in dream analysis and we 270 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:15,380 have him here with us so let's welcome 271 00:12:20,950 --> 00:12:18,410 him to the show Tom happy to have you 272 00:12:23,110 --> 00:12:20,960 here that's wonderful to be here thank 273 00:12:25,450 --> 00:12:23,120 you so much for inviting me and I'm 274 00:12:29,140 --> 00:12:25,460 looking forward to a great discussion 275 00:12:36,270 --> 00:12:29,150 about this world of dreams ah-ha I am 276 00:12:40,660 --> 00:12:38,830 and we have so much to ask you but let's 277 00:12:43,590 --> 00:12:40,670 start with how did you get involved with 278 00:12:48,460 --> 00:12:43,600 dreams what drew you to that subject 279 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:48,470 well I lived in a monastery for seven 280 00:12:55,150 --> 00:12:52,610 years uh a Christian cloistered 281 00:12:58,180 --> 00:12:55,160 monastery was like living in the 13th 282 00:13:00,940 --> 00:12:58,190 century we chanted seven times a day in 283 00:13:03,630 --> 00:13:00,950 Latin and meditated and did all those 284 00:13:09,010 --> 00:13:03,640 kind of things but at some point I 285 00:13:11,230 --> 00:13:09,020 decided I needed to leave and do 286 00:13:14,710 --> 00:13:11,240 something else with my life and as I was 287 00:13:18,370 --> 00:13:14,720 leaving the master of the monastery had 288 00:13:20,530 --> 00:13:18,380 a book in his hand and he said I'm gonna 289 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:20,540 give you a book and it was written by a 290 00:13:26,500 --> 00:13:23,210 man and this book is gonna help you get 291 00:13:28,390 --> 00:13:26,510 from this world of the monastery to the 292 00:13:31,150 --> 00:13:28,400 world where you're going because the 293 00:13:35,050 --> 00:13:31,160 author of this book had a foot in each 294 00:13:38,770 --> 00:13:35,060 world and he handed me memories dreams 295 00:13:42,970 --> 00:13:38,780 reflections the autobiography of Carl 296 00:13:46,150 --> 00:13:42,980 Jung and the first time I ever heard of 297 00:13:48,340 --> 00:13:46,160 Jung that was over 40 years ago and I'm 298 00:13:51,910 --> 00:13:48,350 sitting here in front of my bookcase and 299 00:13:58,440 --> 00:13:51,920 this is the very book Oh for him to say 300 00:14:01,690 --> 00:13:58,450 because that monk gave me and here it is 301 00:14:04,270 --> 00:14:01,700 it's a book I've read many many times 302 00:14:08,550 --> 00:14:04,280 and I say if you want to learn about 303 00:14:14,170 --> 00:14:08,560 Jung that's the best place to begin so 304 00:14:17,830 --> 00:14:14,180 in the index of the book I think it has 305 00:14:18,820 --> 00:14:17,840 I could look but I think it has four 306 00:14:23,830 --> 00:14:18,830 columns 307 00:14:26,620 --> 00:14:23,840 of dreams of Jung's recounted in the in 308 00:14:29,230 --> 00:14:26,630 the book so the book is very much about 309 00:14:32,380 --> 00:14:29,240 his dream life and it introduced me to 310 00:14:33,330 --> 00:14:32,390 the world of dreams and I haven't looked 311 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:33,340 back since 312 00:14:40,990 --> 00:14:38,330 so dreamer pardon me are you a heavy 313 00:14:44,970 --> 00:14:41,000 dreamer I'm not I wouldn't consider 314 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:44,980 myself a heavy dreamer right dream are I 315 00:14:51,220 --> 00:14:47,570 we probably have to clear this up maybe 316 00:14:54,340 --> 00:14:51,230 right off the bat because all the time 317 00:14:57,990 --> 00:14:54,350 people say to me I don't dream well it's 318 00:15:01,540 --> 00:14:58,000 just not possible not to dream I mean my 319 00:15:06,220 --> 00:15:01,550 my PhD advisor Stanley krypter who 320 00:15:09,900 --> 00:15:06,230 probably his work yes yes Stanley did 321 00:15:12,610 --> 00:15:09,910 some dream deprivation research where he 322 00:15:14,830 --> 00:15:12,620 would as soon as people would begin to 323 00:15:17,100 --> 00:15:14,840 go into a dream state they would wake 324 00:15:20,500 --> 00:15:17,110 them up in the dream laboratory and 325 00:15:23,110 --> 00:15:20,510 within three days the people if they had 326 00:15:25,930 --> 00:15:23,120 walked into an emergency room would have 327 00:15:29,590 --> 00:15:25,940 been diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic 328 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:29,600 if you don't as Mick Jagger says in Ruby 329 00:15:36,220 --> 00:15:32,690 Tuesday if you lose your dreams you lose 330 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:36,230 your mind and it's absolutely true we 331 00:15:42,340 --> 00:15:39,170 just don't remember them that's all for 332 00:15:44,950 --> 00:15:42,350 the most part so they're there but 333 00:15:48,970 --> 00:15:44,960 people just don't remember I found it 334 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:48,980 again how do we learn to remember well 335 00:15:56,380 --> 00:15:52,730 that's kind of the very first thing that 336 00:16:01,060 --> 00:15:56,390 you need to pay some attention to and 337 00:16:03,010 --> 00:16:01,070 put some energy into and a couple of 338 00:16:06,070 --> 00:16:03,020 things I can say maybe this will come up 339 00:16:09,190 --> 00:16:06,080 again but you know put a notebook and a 340 00:16:11,950 --> 00:16:09,200 pen beside your bed and then before you 341 00:16:15,670 --> 00:16:11,960 go to sleep as you're falling asleep 342 00:16:18,940 --> 00:16:15,680 give yourself some pre sleep suggestion 343 00:16:24,220 --> 00:16:18,950 in the morning I will remember my dream 344 00:16:26,950 --> 00:16:24,230 and just say that three or four times as 345 00:16:31,450 --> 00:16:26,960 you're falling asleep and that kind of 346 00:16:32,470 --> 00:16:31,460 seeds the unconscious you know to help 347 00:16:35,229 --> 00:16:32,480 you in the morning 348 00:16:39,340 --> 00:16:35,239 and then the other important thing is 349 00:16:42,609 --> 00:16:39,350 when you wake up in the morning jot 350 00:16:45,909 --> 00:16:42,619 something down you don't have to jot the 351 00:16:48,999 --> 00:16:45,919 whole dream down but Johnson key images 352 00:16:51,179 --> 00:16:49,009 that will bring the dream back and it's 353 00:16:54,429 --> 00:16:51,189 the last thing you're gonna want to do 354 00:16:57,759 --> 00:16:54,439 at that hour of the morning is just to 355 00:17:00,009 --> 00:16:57,769 reach over and write down or it's gone 356 00:17:02,169 --> 00:17:00,019 that's one of the mysterious things 357 00:17:07,329 --> 00:17:02,179 about dreams is you can be in the middle 358 00:17:11,220 --> 00:17:07,339 of this amazingly intense experience you 359 00:17:14,799 --> 00:17:11,230 wake up I could never forget this and 360 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:14,809 it's gone time yeah how does that happen 361 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:19,610 how does it points the part of the 362 00:17:24,730 --> 00:17:21,970 mystery of dreams is that they can be 363 00:17:27,990 --> 00:17:24,740 forgotten so quickly it's like they 364 00:17:31,419 --> 00:17:28,000 somehow James Hillman my great teacher 365 00:17:33,970 --> 00:17:31,429 they seem to resist being dragged into 366 00:17:38,740 --> 00:17:33,980 the light of day somehow and we have to 367 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:38,750 do it very gently and so anyhow that's a 368 00:17:43,870 --> 00:17:41,570 few thoughts about oh there are other 369 00:17:47,019 --> 00:17:43,880 ways you can drink a lot of water and 370 00:17:50,649 --> 00:17:47,029 you have to pee in the night and that'll 371 00:17:52,600 --> 00:17:50,659 wake you up that can make you up or you 372 00:17:55,269 --> 00:17:52,610 can take b6 373 00:17:57,840 --> 00:17:55,279 about a half hour before you go to bed 374 00:18:00,820 --> 00:17:57,850 and that seems to enhance dreaming 375 00:18:02,710 --> 00:18:00,830 there's lots of other things that we 376 00:18:07,029 --> 00:18:02,720 talked about we have an entire chapter 377 00:18:09,340 --> 00:18:07,039 in the book on remembering dreams the 378 00:18:13,090 --> 00:18:09,350 only dream I could honestly say I 379 00:18:16,539 --> 00:18:13,100 remember to any degree was about 10 380 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:16,549 years ago and my husband had passed away 381 00:18:22,019 --> 00:18:19,850 at 37 years of age there was different 382 00:18:26,919 --> 00:18:22,029 questions that had never been answered I 383 00:18:27,399 --> 00:18:26,929 woke up I thought I felt the bed sit 384 00:18:32,919 --> 00:18:27,409 down 385 00:18:35,019 --> 00:18:32,929 favorite sweater leaning over kissing me 386 00:18:36,490 --> 00:18:35,029 on the cheek heard him tell me what I 387 00:18:39,370 --> 00:18:36,500 needed to do where the children were 388 00:18:42,039 --> 00:18:39,380 concerned and that was as vivid to me 389 00:18:44,619 --> 00:18:42,049 for three or four days I couldn't I 390 00:18:46,250 --> 00:18:44,629 couldn't lose it it was there that day 391 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:46,260 and then after that it was called 392 00:18:50,750 --> 00:18:48,090 but that's the only time I've ever 393 00:18:54,290 --> 00:18:50,760 remembered anything that intensely how 394 00:18:58,610 --> 00:18:54,300 long ago was that I mean how long after 395 00:19:03,340 --> 00:18:58,620 he passed did you about about 35 37 396 00:19:13,220 --> 00:19:03,350 years you have the dream 37 years later 397 00:19:14,990 --> 00:19:13,230 yeah yeah I'm a slow learners there's 398 00:19:16,940 --> 00:19:15,000 usually people have those kinds of 399 00:19:19,340 --> 00:19:16,950 dreams a little sooner right Tom I mean 400 00:19:24,170 --> 00:19:19,350 maybe a little bit sooner after somebody 401 00:19:27,260 --> 00:19:24,180 passes away they certainly can my my mom 402 00:19:30,470 --> 00:19:27,270 passed a couple of years ago just two 403 00:19:35,930 --> 00:19:30,480 years ago at 98 years old I was doing 404 00:19:37,850 --> 00:19:35,940 Alice to have her around and my 405 00:19:42,020 --> 00:19:37,860 granddaughter we had dinner together 406 00:19:47,450 --> 00:19:42,030 every Sunday night almost the family and 407 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:47,460 my granddaughter Sangeeta and my mom 408 00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:50,250 developed a very very intense 409 00:19:58,640 --> 00:19:56,010 relationship and she died and guida 410 00:20:02,240 --> 00:19:58,650 missed her very much and then about a 411 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:02,250 month later she called me on the phone 412 00:20:10,310 --> 00:20:07,170 and she said I saw Grammy last night in 413 00:20:13,340 --> 00:20:10,320 a dream but it wasn't a dream 414 00:20:15,860 --> 00:20:13,350 Vibha she kept saying that over and over 415 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:15,870 she said he wasn't a dream she came into 416 00:20:21,470 --> 00:20:18,690 my room it was very much like your 417 00:20:23,780 --> 00:20:21,480 husband standing there you know she came 418 00:20:28,250 --> 00:20:23,790 in you know she came into my room and 419 00:20:31,550 --> 00:20:28,260 woke me up Nita said and said I want to 420 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:31,560 take you somewhere and she took my 421 00:20:37,580 --> 00:20:34,050 granddaughter by her hand and they went 422 00:20:41,300 --> 00:20:37,590 up into the sky and my brother who died 423 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:41,310 before Sangeeta was born was very close 424 00:20:48,410 --> 00:20:44,250 to my daughter and she heard a lot about 425 00:20:51,140 --> 00:20:48,420 my brother from her mother and so my 426 00:20:53,210 --> 00:20:51,150 mother took her into a room and said I 427 00:20:56,360 --> 00:20:53,220 want you to meet a very special person 428 00:20:58,190 --> 00:20:56,370 and she looked and she said are you 429 00:21:01,190 --> 00:20:58,200 Uncle Jim 430 00:21:03,560 --> 00:21:01,200 and for heaven sakes she he said I've 431 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:03,570 been looking out for you and keeping you 432 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:05,970 safe and you're doing wonderfully don't 433 00:21:11,779 --> 00:21:09,450 you worry and then my mom started back 434 00:21:15,499 --> 00:21:11,789 down and she said oh there's one other 435 00:21:18,979 --> 00:21:15,509 person my mom was a very devout Catholic 436 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:18,989 and she said I just almost offhandedly 437 00:21:23,570 --> 00:21:21,090 she said I want you to meet somebody and 438 00:21:28,729 --> 00:21:23,580 they went into another space and there 439 00:21:30,950 --> 00:21:28,739 was Jesus and Jesus said to Dida you're 440 00:21:33,950 --> 00:21:30,960 a wonderful little girl and your 441 00:21:36,619 --> 00:21:33,960 grandmother's were so happy to have her 442 00:21:40,279 --> 00:21:36,629 here with us and you'll be here someday 443 00:21:42,979 --> 00:21:40,289 with us also and then she took her down 444 00:21:45,229 --> 00:21:42,989 she said b-but this wasn't a dream she 445 00:21:48,019 --> 00:21:45,239 said again this wasn't a dream and and 446 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:48,029 then Graeme took me back to my room and 447 00:21:54,859 --> 00:21:51,330 tucked me in and kissed me and said 448 00:21:57,409 --> 00:21:54,869 goodnight and went out my door and I got 449 00:21:59,090 --> 00:21:57,419 up out of my bed beep ah she said and I 450 00:22:01,789 --> 00:21:59,100 opened the door and look down the 451 00:22:04,399 --> 00:22:01,799 corridor to see if she was still there 452 00:22:08,570 --> 00:22:04,409 but she was gone and I went back and 453 00:22:11,690 --> 00:22:08,580 went to sleep so that there's the whole 454 00:22:14,659 --> 00:22:11,700 story of that in the book and other 455 00:22:17,479 --> 00:22:14,669 dreams about death and it seemed like 456 00:22:18,529 --> 00:22:17,489 death and the life but not a 457 00:22:22,820 --> 00:22:18,539 relationship 458 00:22:25,729 --> 00:22:22,830 no and and often it can go out that it 459 00:22:33,349 --> 00:22:25,739 can go on in in the dream world which is 460 00:22:37,509 --> 00:22:33,359 quite magical it again gives it gives us 461 00:22:40,369 --> 00:22:37,519 a reason to understand the importance of 462 00:22:42,470 --> 00:22:40,379 dreams I mean if you're not paying 463 00:22:44,989 --> 00:22:42,480 attention to your dreams this could be 464 00:22:46,759 --> 00:22:44,999 some of the wonderful experiences that 465 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:46,769 you're missing and certainly a 466 00:22:52,659 --> 00:22:49,730 granddaughter had a spectacular 467 00:22:55,909 --> 00:22:52,669 experience with your grandmother but 468 00:22:57,979 --> 00:22:55,919 it's if you're not paying attention you 469 00:23:02,930 --> 00:22:57,989 know as an adult this is what you're 470 00:23:06,859 --> 00:23:02,940 going to miss yeah and and she that 471 00:23:08,599 --> 00:23:06,869 Christmas I gave a copy of that dream to 472 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:08,609 all the grandchildren and 473 00:23:13,490 --> 00:23:10,290 great-grandchildren 474 00:23:17,060 --> 00:23:13,500 that there Graham is still alive and 475 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:17,070 well and looking after them you know and 476 00:23:23,570 --> 00:23:20,610 it's really wonderful like her her life 477 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:23,580 goes on that's beautiful wonder what a 478 00:23:33,890 --> 00:23:26,610 gift yes definitely I think something 479 00:23:36,980 --> 00:23:33,900 you said Patricia is that we it's one 480 00:23:39,410 --> 00:23:36,990 thing to remember the dream and then we 481 00:23:44,450 --> 00:23:39,420 have to do something with it it can be 482 00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:44,460 as little as my granddaughter telling me 483 00:23:50,360 --> 00:23:48,450 you know and then asking me or I asked 484 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:50,370 her if I could write it down and she 485 00:23:55,100 --> 00:23:52,290 wrote it all down for me and then I 486 00:23:58,250 --> 00:23:55,110 copied it out in calligraphy and made a 487 00:24:00,560 --> 00:23:58,260 card for all everyone in the family but 488 00:24:04,360 --> 00:24:00,570 if we don't do something there's a 489 00:24:08,120 --> 00:24:04,370 wonderful story about Edgar Cayce who 490 00:24:10,430 --> 00:24:08,130 yeah use you know he would go into the - 491 00:24:13,790 --> 00:24:10,440 the sleeping prophet he would go into 492 00:24:15,590 --> 00:24:13,800 those sleeping trance States and people 493 00:24:19,060 --> 00:24:15,600 would write him all these letters and 494 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:19,070 his secretary Gladys Davis would read 495 00:24:24,790 --> 00:24:22,410 these letters and he his source would 496 00:24:27,530 --> 00:24:24,800 answer their questions they might be 497 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:27,540 physical diseases or financial problems 498 00:24:33,860 --> 00:24:30,570 or spiritual questions or whatever but 499 00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:33,870 Casey also had the wonderful gift of 500 00:24:40,130 --> 00:24:36,330 being able to have Gladys read his 501 00:24:42,170 --> 00:24:40,140 dreams to him while he was in that state 502 00:24:47,300 --> 00:24:42,180 and have them interpreted from that 503 00:24:50,030 --> 00:24:47,310 source that he contacted and so he he 504 00:24:53,390 --> 00:24:50,040 had given a Gladys a dream that he 505 00:24:55,910 --> 00:24:53,400 wanted to have read to him and then he 506 00:24:58,220 --> 00:24:55,920 came out of his trance and he said the 507 00:25:00,560 --> 00:24:58,230 Gladys he said what did they say about 508 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:00,570 that dream he really wanted to know it 509 00:25:06,050 --> 00:25:03,810 was a very powerful dream and Gladys was 510 00:25:09,980 --> 00:25:06,060 very embarrassed she had great respect 511 00:25:12,740 --> 00:25:09,990 for Edgar Cayce and she said well what 512 00:25:16,490 --> 00:25:12,750 what the source said was I gave you some 513 00:25:18,950 --> 00:25:16,500 information about a dream about a week 514 00:25:20,540 --> 00:25:18,960 ago and you've done nothing about it and 515 00:25:30,730 --> 00:25:20,550 until you do 516 00:25:34,220 --> 00:25:30,740 there will be no further information so 517 00:25:36,470 --> 00:25:34,230 if we do have the gift of receiving a 518 00:25:38,300 --> 00:25:36,480 dream then we really need to do 519 00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:38,310 something with it because young once 520 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:41,250 said the conscious and unconscious work 521 00:25:46,970 --> 00:25:43,770 as hard as each other works and it's a 522 00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:46,980 relationship so okay so then we have to 523 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:48,570 do something with it and this is where I 524 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:51,650 think dream groups become a really 525 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:54,930 important adjunct to dream work having 526 00:25:59,930 --> 00:25:57,690 people to talk to you to talk about your 527 00:26:00,620 --> 00:25:59,940 dreams and to listen to them about their 528 00:26:05,630 --> 00:26:00,630 dreams 529 00:26:07,700 --> 00:26:05,640 it becomes very powerful dream dream 530 00:26:11,060 --> 00:26:07,710 groups can be there's a there's a 531 00:26:14,330 --> 00:26:11,070 wonderful book by a man named Montague 532 00:26:17,870 --> 00:26:14,340 Ullman and he worked with Stan krypter 533 00:26:19,970 --> 00:26:17,880 on telepathic dreams and a woman named 534 00:26:23,300 --> 00:26:19,980 Nan's immerman called working with your 535 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:23,310 dreams and it's it's the best book on 536 00:26:29,090 --> 00:26:26,730 how regular folks you know not psycho 537 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:29,100 therapist or psychologist or dream 538 00:26:35,330 --> 00:26:31,650 experts or anything can start a dream 539 00:26:38,750 --> 00:26:35,340 group and it's if you have somebody like 540 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:38,760 my wife is really also interested in her 541 00:26:44,570 --> 00:26:42,330 dreams and oh like for mornings a week 542 00:26:47,180 --> 00:26:44,580 we'll tell each other our dreams you 543 00:26:51,620 --> 00:26:47,190 know if we bring them back and one of us 544 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:51,630 does or the other both sometimes but one 545 00:26:57,820 --> 00:26:54,810 of the best exercises that Omen and 546 00:27:01,010 --> 00:26:57,830 Zimmerman talk about in there is a 547 00:27:03,230 --> 00:27:01,020 dreamer one of the things about dream 548 00:27:05,060 --> 00:27:03,240 groups that when I've been in dream 549 00:27:07,700 --> 00:27:05,070 groups and there was a professional 550 00:27:10,250 --> 00:27:07,710 there they usually worked on one dream 551 00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:10,260 and the rest of the group kind of sat 552 00:27:15,500 --> 00:27:13,170 there well omen and Zimmerman came up 553 00:27:18,770 --> 00:27:15,510 with this really marvelous exercise 554 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:18,780 where someone tells a dream and then 555 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:21,450 everyone in the group writes the dream 556 00:27:26,900 --> 00:27:24,450 down and then they take about 20 minutes 557 00:27:31,940 --> 00:27:26,910 by themselves each person in the group 558 00:27:34,340 --> 00:27:31,950 and they say what would what if this was 559 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:34,350 my dream what would it mean 560 00:27:42,380 --> 00:27:38,490 to me and then the dreamer gets what 561 00:27:46,460 --> 00:27:42,390 omen and calls a reservoir of possible 562 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:46,470 meanings everybody reads back that what 563 00:27:51,380 --> 00:27:48,450 the dream would have meant to them and 564 00:27:56,120 --> 00:27:51,390 the dreamer gets this gift of all these 565 00:27:58,460 --> 00:27:56,130 different and MMus happened actually my 566 00:28:01,669 --> 00:27:58,470 wife and I do these week long dream 567 00:28:04,070 --> 00:28:01,679 retreats and we did that exercise a 568 00:28:07,039 --> 00:28:04,080 couple of times that week and someone 569 00:28:08,810 --> 00:28:07,049 told the dream and I took it on as if it 570 00:28:12,950 --> 00:28:08,820 was my dream and I wrote it down I 571 00:28:15,860 --> 00:28:12,960 worked on it and got a lot from it for 572 00:28:19,820 --> 00:28:15,870 myself and as well as for the dreamer 573 00:28:21,409 --> 00:28:19,830 and about two weeks later I ran into 574 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:21,419 someone who had been at the dream 575 00:28:25,580 --> 00:28:23,730 retreat and I said how are you doing he 576 00:28:28,100 --> 00:28:25,590 said I'm still thinking about the dream 577 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:28,110 retreat and I said I'm still thinking 578 00:28:32,930 --> 00:28:29,730 about it too I'm thinking about that 579 00:28:36,020 --> 00:28:32,940 dream I had and I told them you know a 580 00:28:38,149 --> 00:28:36,030 little bit of the dream and the person 581 00:28:41,390 --> 00:28:38,159 looked at me and said Tom that wasn't 582 00:28:45,230 --> 00:28:41,400 your dream I said what do you mean he 583 00:28:49,100 --> 00:28:45,240 said that was Brenda's dream what do you 584 00:28:51,890 --> 00:28:49,110 mean so taking that on as my own and 585 00:28:54,770 --> 00:28:51,900 that continued to work with it that I 586 00:28:58,549 --> 00:28:54,780 actually began to believe it was my own 587 00:29:01,279 --> 00:28:58,559 dream so anyhow dream groups Patricia 588 00:29:04,490 --> 00:29:01,289 are a great way to work on on your 589 00:29:07,220 --> 00:29:04,500 dreams and we have a bunch of exercises 590 00:29:10,010 --> 00:29:07,230 in the book about how dream groups can 591 00:29:12,020 --> 00:29:10,020 work on on each other's dreams yeah this 592 00:29:14,210 --> 00:29:12,030 is this is I think much needed 593 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:14,220 especially today it helps people come 594 00:29:19,010 --> 00:29:17,010 together helps us really go inside and 595 00:29:20,870 --> 00:29:19,020 see what are the truths we can determine 596 00:29:23,029 --> 00:29:20,880 now we're gonna take a short break in a 597 00:29:25,460 --> 00:29:23,039 minute and we'll be we'll be back but 598 00:29:28,430 --> 00:29:25,470 before we go I wanted to tell everybody 599 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:28,440 you can watch us live tonight at this 600 00:29:34,220 --> 00:29:29,010 link 601 00:29:43,970 --> 00:29:34,230 ir n dot BZ /pha spook live again that 602 00:29:45,890 --> 00:29:43,980 is ir n dot b z /pha spook live and take 603 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:45,900 a look at our facebook page again 604 00:29:48,230 --> 00:29:47,730 supernatural girls they got some crazy 605 00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:48,240 stuff 606 00:29:52,700 --> 00:29:49,770 there for you to look at we want to know 607 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:52,710 what you think of it so everybody we are 608 00:29:58,070 --> 00:29:55,290 speaking tonight with Tom Verner he is a 609 00:30:00,350 --> 00:29:58,080 dream expert and we've got a lot to talk 610 00:30:02,810 --> 00:30:00,360 about tonight and hopefully give you the 611 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:02,820 insight you may be looking for so stay 612 00:30:07,549 --> 00:30:05,090 tuned everybody we'll be right back 613 00:30:08,510 --> 00:30:07,559 welcome back everyone to Supernatural 614 00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:08,520 girls radio 615 00:30:14,660 --> 00:30:10,770 I'm your host Patricia Baker here with 616 00:30:17,540 --> 00:30:14,670 my co-host pk and our illustrious guest 617 00:30:20,510 --> 00:30:17,550 Tom Werner expert in dreaming and author 618 00:30:24,230 --> 00:30:20,520 of the transformational power of 619 00:30:26,330 --> 00:30:24,240 dreaming discovering which is one so 620 00:30:28,010 --> 00:30:26,340 that's what we need to do is discover 621 00:30:30,980 --> 00:30:28,020 the wishes of the soul we've got a 622 00:30:33,500 --> 00:30:30,990 couple of questions for you Tom from our 623 00:30:37,100 --> 00:30:33,510 chat room this one is from a CEO who 624 00:30:41,330 --> 00:30:37,110 says hello I had a dream that my friend 625 00:30:47,450 --> 00:30:41,340 who had recently become my enemy is dead 626 00:30:54,350 --> 00:30:47,460 what does that mean Oh bye-bye dougie 627 00:30:57,049 --> 00:30:54,360 yeah had a dream about her friend who 628 00:31:00,740 --> 00:30:57,059 was now on the outs with in some way 629 00:31:04,570 --> 00:31:00,750 that had become her enemy yeah became an 630 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:04,580 enemy and now that enemy in the dream 631 00:31:11,870 --> 00:31:09,330 died what does that mean well I have to 632 00:31:13,549 --> 00:31:11,880 I have to preface I'm sure there were 633 00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:13,559 gonna be other dreams I just have to 634 00:31:22,070 --> 00:31:18,330 preface this with young once said to 635 00:31:27,140 --> 00:31:22,080 Freud he said the difference between you 636 00:31:30,830 --> 00:31:27,150 and me is you interpret dreams and I 637 00:31:33,530 --> 00:31:30,840 interpret dreamers he said you don't 638 00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:33,540 need the dreamer there because you know 639 00:31:38,750 --> 00:31:36,330 what the dream means already because you 640 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:38,760 have a theory and you reduce the dream 641 00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:42,330 to your theory he said but I need to ask 642 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:46,410 the dreamer about the symbols in the 643 00:31:53,630 --> 00:31:48,690 dream because only the dreamer knows 644 00:31:56,180 --> 00:31:53,640 what the dream means he said say there 645 00:31:59,060 --> 00:31:56,190 was a pencil in the dream well Freud 646 00:32:01,580 --> 00:31:59,070 knew what that meant it was some phallic 647 00:32:04,159 --> 00:32:01,590 symbol of sexuality or power or 648 00:32:07,820 --> 00:32:04,169 something but young said to him wonder 649 00:32:10,789 --> 00:32:07,830 if the dreamer was a writer wonder if 650 00:32:13,519 --> 00:32:10,799 the dreamer was illiterate wonder if the 651 00:32:15,260 --> 00:32:13,529 dreamer had had his eye poked out by his 652 00:32:18,649 --> 00:32:15,270 older brother when they were 10 years 653 00:32:21,140 --> 00:32:18,659 old with a pencil there are three very 654 00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:21,150 different pencils young said and I 655 00:32:31,700 --> 00:32:23,010 wouldn't know that and once I had the 656 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:31,710 dreamer so that being said I would ask 657 00:32:40,730 --> 00:32:36,210 the dreamer why is this person showing 658 00:32:45,139 --> 00:32:40,740 up right now I'd want to know how long 659 00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:45,149 the dreamer has been enemies with this 660 00:32:50,330 --> 00:32:48,570 person this who sounded like they might 661 00:32:54,019 --> 00:32:50,340 have been an important person in their 662 00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:54,029 life and now they're an enemy and I know 663 00:33:03,080 --> 00:32:57,090 how hard that has been in my life when a 664 00:33:08,330 --> 00:33:03,090 good friend has become an enemy and it 665 00:33:10,700 --> 00:33:08,340 feels like a very it's almost as if the 666 00:33:12,710 --> 00:33:10,710 person would like them completely out of 667 00:33:14,690 --> 00:33:12,720 their life so they don't have to think 668 00:33:16,779 --> 00:33:14,700 about them they don't have to deal with 669 00:33:20,630 --> 00:33:16,789 them they don't have to deal with that 670 00:33:23,659 --> 00:33:20,640 maybe hurt or pain or missing or longing 671 00:33:26,810 --> 00:33:23,669 or whatever I don't know I'd love to 672 00:33:30,380 --> 00:33:26,820 talk with that dreamer about it what I 673 00:33:33,889 --> 00:33:30,390 would do if I was that dreamer I can 674 00:33:38,029 --> 00:33:33,899 give them some I would sit down I would 675 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:38,039 quiet myself I would put myself in my 676 00:33:44,919 --> 00:33:41,850 imagination in a place where that person 677 00:33:49,010 --> 00:33:44,929 and I used to really like to go together 678 00:33:51,500 --> 00:33:49,020 that friend now an enemy and close their 679 00:33:54,769 --> 00:33:51,510 eyes imagine that person across from 680 00:33:57,889 --> 00:33:54,779 them have a piece of paper there on 681 00:34:00,320 --> 00:33:57,899 their desk as she's imagining this 682 00:34:03,350 --> 00:34:00,330 person there and have a conversation 683 00:34:06,950 --> 00:34:03,360 with that person like why are you 684 00:34:10,339 --> 00:34:06,960 showing up in my dream and why are you 685 00:34:16,039 --> 00:34:10,349 you know and and just see what it can be 686 00:34:19,190 --> 00:34:16,049 amazing how that person can say things 687 00:34:23,180 --> 00:34:19,200 if you can open yourself up to being 688 00:34:26,750 --> 00:34:23,190 surprised things they will say that 689 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:26,760 you're shocked by and it might heal the 690 00:34:32,599 --> 00:34:30,210 relationship you know I don't know I 691 00:34:35,359 --> 00:34:32,609 somehow it feels to me and this might be 692 00:34:41,899 --> 00:34:35,369 wishful thinking or something it feels 693 00:34:47,379 --> 00:34:41,909 like the relationship is looking to be 694 00:34:50,419 --> 00:34:47,389 healed in some way and I know that a my 695 00:34:52,970 --> 00:34:50,429 intuition about the dream ya know it 696 00:34:54,230 --> 00:34:52,980 seems to be saying the hell with you I 697 00:34:56,240 --> 00:34:54,240 wish you were dead 698 00:34:57,410 --> 00:34:56,250 I'm not sure that's what the dream is 699 00:35:00,920 --> 00:34:57,420 saying at all 700 00:35:05,079 --> 00:35:00,930 yes and I can't justify that rationally 701 00:35:07,849 --> 00:35:05,089 but just having heard so many dreams 702 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:07,859 that's what it feels like if that makes 703 00:35:12,259 --> 00:35:09,930 that's all I can say right now that 704 00:35:14,509 --> 00:35:12,269 makes sense yes thank you for that 705 00:35:16,730 --> 00:35:14,519 now here's another question this is from 706 00:35:22,490 --> 00:35:16,740 starlight who would like to know what do 707 00:35:27,740 --> 00:35:22,500 constant dreams of beaches mean beaches 708 00:35:32,509 --> 00:35:27,750 Wow the first thing that comes to my 709 00:35:34,670 --> 00:35:32,519 mind and and its really interesting I'm 710 00:35:37,339 --> 00:35:34,680 not really pitching the book every time 711 00:35:42,499 --> 00:35:37,349 I say this but there's a lot in the book 712 00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:42,509 about the in-between places the places 713 00:35:48,349 --> 00:35:45,930 between waking and sleeping the between 714 00:35:51,620 --> 00:35:48,359 darkness and light between dreaming and 715 00:35:58,279 --> 00:35:51,630 waking on all that and beaches are very 716 00:36:01,160 --> 00:35:58,289 much places between ah okay between the 717 00:36:04,490 --> 00:36:01,170 great source of life the the great 718 00:36:07,940 --> 00:36:04,500 mother herself the ocean and the land 719 00:36:11,269 --> 00:36:07,950 and to be in that place between is a 720 00:36:15,170 --> 00:36:11,279 very very powerful place like on the 721 00:36:19,430 --> 00:36:15,180 equinoxes or the solstices those places 722 00:36:25,279 --> 00:36:19,440 between seasons dawn and the dusk those 723 00:36:27,849 --> 00:36:25,289 power times are all times between and I 724 00:36:31,029 --> 00:36:27,859 can't say what 725 00:36:34,299 --> 00:36:31,039 that particular beach means but I would 726 00:36:36,970 --> 00:36:34,309 ask her to place herself there in her 727 00:36:40,479 --> 00:36:36,980 imagination go back into the dream and 728 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:40,489 imagine she's in that place and what 729 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:43,130 does that begin to bring up in her you 730 00:36:51,220 --> 00:36:47,410 know that's hard fast you know and also 731 00:36:54,009 --> 00:36:51,230 young as I said was very hesitant to say 732 00:36:59,019 --> 00:36:54,019 this means that or that means this or 733 00:37:01,930 --> 00:36:59,029 you know but the the ocean he really 734 00:37:05,499 --> 00:37:01,940 felt was the unconscious in many ways 735 00:37:09,609 --> 00:37:05,509 was the great source of images and 736 00:37:14,710 --> 00:37:09,619 guidance so it may have something to do 737 00:37:17,739 --> 00:37:14,720 with that I'm not sure yes so I can see 738 00:37:19,569 --> 00:37:17,749 why are you such a great psychotherapist 739 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:19,579 and I can see why you're such a great 740 00:37:27,849 --> 00:37:21,170 dream analyst you hit it right on the 741 00:37:30,819 --> 00:37:27,859 head star seed uh-huh this is from star 742 00:37:34,109 --> 00:37:30,829 seed who's saying do you recommend using 743 00:37:41,079 --> 00:37:34,119 waking and lucid dreaming to address 744 00:37:44,319 --> 00:37:41,089 recurring dreams I wonder why she's 745 00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:44,329 wondering that Lucent uh you me okay 746 00:37:53,470 --> 00:37:51,170 okay um yeah I think so I think that if 747 00:37:58,599 --> 00:37:53,480 she could if she's having a recurring 748 00:38:04,120 --> 00:37:58,609 dream and she can become lucid in it she 749 00:38:08,380 --> 00:38:04,130 oftentimes a recurring dream is about 750 00:38:11,650 --> 00:38:08,390 something like Edgar Cayce if you don't 751 00:38:13,569 --> 00:38:11,660 deal with the issue that the dream is 752 00:38:19,269 --> 00:38:13,579 presenting to you it's going to keep 753 00:38:23,140 --> 00:38:19,279 showing up and there's I'd love to tell 754 00:38:26,019 --> 00:38:23,150 a recurring dream that is in the book a 755 00:38:28,930 --> 00:38:26,029 patient of mine yes please go ahead um 756 00:38:35,109 --> 00:38:28,940 and this might help star seed star seed 757 00:38:40,359 --> 00:38:35,119 was it nurse yes this woman a young 758 00:38:41,290 --> 00:38:40,369 woman she was in high school she lived 759 00:38:43,900 --> 00:38:41,300 in a ver 760 00:38:46,990 --> 00:38:43,910 rigid it happened to be a Catholic 761 00:38:49,450 --> 00:38:47,000 family and she just couldn't wait to get 762 00:38:54,340 --> 00:38:49,460 out of the house and she ended up 763 00:38:57,280 --> 00:38:54,350 meeting a guy and she very quickly they 764 00:39:00,280 --> 00:38:57,290 moved in together and very soon after 765 00:39:03,550 --> 00:39:00,290 that she got pregnant and it scared the 766 00:39:09,430 --> 00:39:03,560 hell out of the guy and he took off and 767 00:39:11,500 --> 00:39:09,440 so now now she had she had a baby and 768 00:39:15,340 --> 00:39:11,510 she had to come back home to her parents 769 00:39:17,530 --> 00:39:15,350 crawling back home and she was she 770 00:39:20,500 --> 00:39:17,540 started having a recurring dream she was 771 00:39:22,960 --> 00:39:20,510 in the bedroom and her little bassinet 772 00:39:26,410 --> 00:39:22,970 with her baby was in the bedroom with 773 00:39:28,240 --> 00:39:26,420 her and the door would open she's these 774 00:39:31,470 --> 00:39:28,250 are particularly terrifying dreams 775 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:31,480 because you're dreaming you're in bed 776 00:39:37,300 --> 00:39:34,370 sleeping you're dreaming where you are 777 00:39:43,210 --> 00:39:37,310 so it feels real 778 00:39:46,270 --> 00:39:43,220 so she wakes up in her dream she's awake 779 00:39:49,180 --> 00:39:46,280 and this door opens and there's some a 780 00:39:51,430 --> 00:39:49,190 dark figure coming over and he has a 781 00:39:55,990 --> 00:39:51,440 knife in his hand and she wakes up 782 00:39:58,360 --> 00:39:56,000 screaming she brought that into into 783 00:40:02,140 --> 00:39:58,370 therapy and we worked on it she went 784 00:40:04,780 --> 00:40:02,150 back into the dream and I just asked her 785 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:04,790 she had had it two or three times and I 786 00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:09,890 asked her can she when that figure gets 787 00:40:17,740 --> 00:40:13,010 close can she say what do you want from 788 00:40:18,700 --> 00:40:17,750 me confront the figure like that what do 789 00:40:22,330 --> 00:40:18,710 you want from me 790 00:40:28,090 --> 00:40:22,340 and take that fear and have the courage 791 00:40:35,260 --> 00:40:28,100 to like because for me every part of the 792 00:40:37,810 --> 00:40:35,270 dream is a part of myself and so the the 793 00:40:41,260 --> 00:40:37,820 seneye the indigenous people in malaysia 794 00:40:45,430 --> 00:40:41,270 who have a great dream culture say where 795 00:40:48,870 --> 00:40:45,440 the fear is that's where the power is so 796 00:40:52,570 --> 00:40:48,880 if I'm if you can confront that fear 797 00:40:54,589 --> 00:40:52,580 that's power that you're not owning in 798 00:40:57,559 --> 00:40:54,599 some way so the dream 799 00:41:02,509 --> 00:40:57,569 kept the figure kept getting closer and 800 00:41:04,130 --> 00:41:02,519 closer and one night she car one session 801 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:04,140 she came in she said something very 802 00:41:07,789 --> 00:41:05,249 strange happened 803 00:41:11,630 --> 00:41:07,799 she said the the figure is wearing my 804 00:41:14,499 --> 00:41:11,640 coat now so it's making it pretty clear 805 00:41:17,599 --> 00:41:14,509 to her that this is part of herself so 806 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:17,609 gradually what ended up happening which 807 00:41:26,569 --> 00:41:20,249 he realized the figure was not coming to 808 00:41:28,789 --> 00:41:26,579 kill her but to kill her baby and Wow 809 00:41:31,430 --> 00:41:28,799 then we started because it would go over 810 00:41:33,289 --> 00:41:31,440 toward the bassinet and then she'd say 811 00:41:35,989 --> 00:41:33,299 what do you want from me and it would 812 00:41:39,140 --> 00:41:35,999 turn and come one but she never told me 813 00:41:41,599 --> 00:41:39,150 that piece of the dream you know cuz she 814 00:41:44,390 --> 00:41:41,609 couldn't really say it out loud that 815 00:41:49,700 --> 00:41:44,400 this person was really a part of herself 816 00:41:53,269 --> 00:41:49,710 that resented this baby the baby now got 817 00:41:57,170 --> 00:41:53,279 her crawling back home taking all this 818 00:42:02,779 --> 00:41:57,180 kind of stuff from her parents now and 819 00:42:05,420 --> 00:42:02,789 so eventually the person came right next 820 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:05,430 to the bed in the dream raised this 821 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:08,729 knife and she said what do you want from 822 00:42:15,890 --> 00:42:12,210 me and the knife came down and just as 823 00:42:21,349 --> 00:42:15,900 it crossed the face of this intruder it 824 00:42:24,079 --> 00:42:21,359 burst into a torch and it illuminated - 825 00:42:28,969 --> 00:42:24,089 the most beautiful version of herself 826 00:42:29,839 --> 00:42:28,979 that she had ever seen and she never had 827 00:42:33,289 --> 00:42:29,849 the dream again 828 00:42:35,420 --> 00:42:33,299 you know once he acknowledged that there 829 00:42:38,029 --> 00:42:35,430 was some part of her that wanted to kill 830 00:42:41,479 --> 00:42:38,039 her baby she didn't have to kill it 831 00:42:44,660 --> 00:42:41,489 anymore and this dark terrible part of 832 00:42:50,319 --> 00:42:44,670 herself became this powerful beautiful 833 00:42:54,349 --> 00:42:50,329 part of herself so I just think that if 834 00:42:58,249 --> 00:42:54,359 that was a kind of lucidity you know yes 835 00:43:01,099 --> 00:42:58,259 yes so I think star seed is on the right 836 00:43:04,279 --> 00:43:01,109 track by saying you know maybe if I can 837 00:43:08,030 --> 00:43:04,289 become lucid in the dream you know 838 00:43:10,700 --> 00:43:08,040 transform whatever darkness is in the 839 00:43:13,100 --> 00:43:10,710 maybe it's often recurring dreams can be 840 00:43:15,740 --> 00:43:13,110 difficult dreams and may she didn't say 841 00:43:18,620 --> 00:43:15,750 what kind of dream it was but I kind of 842 00:43:22,580 --> 00:43:18,630 assumed it probably is I don't know yeah 843 00:43:26,300 --> 00:43:22,590 oftentimes they are difficult and and 844 00:43:27,890 --> 00:43:26,310 and difficult to fathom difficult to you 845 00:43:29,780 --> 00:43:27,900 know people sometimes don't like to go 846 00:43:32,570 --> 00:43:29,790 to sleep in case they have that dream 847 00:43:34,430 --> 00:43:32,580 again but again is it as a dream 848 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:34,440 therapist and a psychotherapist you 849 00:43:39,950 --> 00:43:37,050 teach people how to confront the fear in 850 00:43:42,410 --> 00:43:39,960 the dream how to become lucid how to use 851 00:43:43,910 --> 00:43:42,420 the fear to your advantage and I know 852 00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:43,920 there's a lot of techniques and you have 853 00:43:48,740 --> 00:43:46,530 a bunch of them in the book about how 854 00:43:51,170 --> 00:43:48,750 how to make all of this happen I mean we 855 00:43:54,710 --> 00:43:51,180 can have dream buddies so we call on 856 00:43:57,590 --> 00:43:54,720 right so that we ask them like if I ask 857 00:44:01,220 --> 00:43:57,600 PK to be my dream buddy and things get 858 00:44:02,990 --> 00:44:01,230 hairy in my dream and I call on PK she's 859 00:44:05,300 --> 00:44:03,000 going to show up because I've asked her 860 00:44:07,730 --> 00:44:05,310 in the conscious world to be my dream 861 00:44:10,610 --> 00:44:07,740 buddy and so then I've got somebody by 862 00:44:13,270 --> 00:44:10,620 my side and as I'm confronting this 863 00:44:16,550 --> 00:44:13,280 whatever it is the monster that is 864 00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:16,560 stalking me she's right there with me so 865 00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:19,290 it's it's really important and I see 866 00:44:23,150 --> 00:44:21,570 dreams and the way you talk about them 867 00:44:26,300 --> 00:44:23,160 in the book as a way of bringing people 868 00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:26,310 together again as a way of teaching 869 00:44:29,930 --> 00:44:27,930 people self empowerment through 870 00:44:32,030 --> 00:44:29,940 connection connection to the south 871 00:44:34,130 --> 00:44:32,040 connection to the people around us and 872 00:44:37,820 --> 00:44:34,140 again you've got these great techniques 873 00:44:40,100 --> 00:44:37,830 in here in this book to help you to feel 874 00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:40,110 safe when you encounter things in your 875 00:44:44,690 --> 00:44:43,170 dream that are scary but also how to 876 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:44,700 deal with them how to take the power 877 00:44:49,180 --> 00:44:47,610 back from them the Senoia tribe now you 878 00:44:52,580 --> 00:44:49,190 say it a little differently than I do 879 00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:52,590 they they teach the children how to do 880 00:44:59,600 --> 00:44:56,490 this right they do absolutely if yeah I 881 00:45:03,350 --> 00:44:59,610 mean what you said was you know having 882 00:45:07,100 --> 00:45:03,360 PK come into your dream as an ally 883 00:45:11,270 --> 00:45:07,110 that's something say a sin oh a child 884 00:45:14,870 --> 00:45:11,280 has a as a nightmare like they're they 885 00:45:18,410 --> 00:45:14,880 fell off a cliff and they're falling in 886 00:45:21,370 --> 00:45:18,420 the in the morning or even in the night 887 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:21,380 if the child woke up they would come 888 00:45:25,270 --> 00:45:23,450 the child let them go back to sleep in 889 00:45:29,140 --> 00:45:25,280 the morning they would say to the child 890 00:45:33,190 --> 00:45:29,150 you are not falling you were beginning 891 00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:33,200 to fly but you forgot you were in the 892 00:45:40,900 --> 00:45:36,170 dream universe where you can fly so 893 00:45:43,060 --> 00:45:40,910 tonight go over to that cliff in your 894 00:45:45,220 --> 00:45:43,070 dream and the parent will sit on the bed 895 00:45:48,340 --> 00:45:45,230 as the child is falling asleep and 896 00:45:49,240 --> 00:45:48,350 instead of saying oh it was just a dream 897 00:45:53,350 --> 00:45:49,250 forget it 898 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:53,360 they'll say in the dream tonight go over 899 00:45:58,600 --> 00:45:55,370 to that cliff behind uncle Charlie's 900 00:46:01,210 --> 00:45:58,610 house and stand there and leap off the 901 00:46:01,900 --> 00:46:01,220 cliff because you are not only about to 902 00:46:06,610 --> 00:46:01,910 fly 903 00:46:10,410 --> 00:46:06,620 beautiful place where you were going to 904 00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:10,420 receive a gift that would be very 905 00:46:17,260 --> 00:46:14,330 important for you and if you get scared 906 00:46:19,780 --> 00:46:17,270 at the edge of the cliff have PK come 907 00:46:23,170 --> 00:46:19,790 over and stand beside you or have your 908 00:46:25,720 --> 00:46:23,180 buddy or your or have us come over and 909 00:46:28,810 --> 00:46:25,730 stand beside you and encourage you and 910 00:46:33,550 --> 00:46:28,820 support you and then the child goes and 911 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:33,560 the next morning tells what gift they 912 00:46:41,020 --> 00:46:36,890 received and then they'll spend the next 913 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:41,030 days creating that gift or finding 914 00:46:46,870 --> 00:46:43,850 someone and maybe it was a blowpipe for 915 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:46,880 hunting and they would go and with 916 00:46:50,410 --> 00:46:48,890 someone who's an expert on that kind of 917 00:46:53,830 --> 00:46:50,420 thing and they would find and make a 918 00:46:56,350 --> 00:46:53,840 blowpipe and then once a month the son 919 00:46:58,930 --> 00:46:56,360 who I have these show-and-tell where 920 00:47:03,040 --> 00:46:58,940 recipes they found in dreams clothes 921 00:47:05,710 --> 00:47:03,050 songs dances gifts and they'll get 922 00:47:08,350 --> 00:47:05,720 together and have a big dream party and 923 00:47:11,890 --> 00:47:08,360 bring the food that they learned about 924 00:47:14,590 --> 00:47:11,900 integer someone just told me cooked a 925 00:47:17,260 --> 00:47:14,600 meal for me and they told me that it was 926 00:47:23,050 --> 00:47:17,270 a meal that they first tasted in the 927 00:47:28,330 --> 00:47:23,060 dream that happened about him so anyone 928 00:47:30,160 --> 00:47:28,340 is powerful very powerful now again 929 00:47:33,070 --> 00:47:30,170 there there is a tremendous amount of 930 00:47:35,289 --> 00:47:33,080 power in in the dream world there are 931 00:47:36,870 --> 00:47:35,299 also there's 932 00:47:38,919 --> 00:47:36,880 there's a difference though between 933 00:47:41,099 --> 00:47:38,929 something that we were just talking 934 00:47:44,589 --> 00:47:41,109 about and that's having a nightmare okay 935 00:47:47,429 --> 00:47:44,599 and having a night terror yeah what's 936 00:47:51,099 --> 00:47:47,439 the difference between those two things 937 00:47:53,589 --> 00:47:51,109 well I'm not I'm not um actually my 938 00:47:56,169 --> 00:47:53,599 co-author Stephen who's really a 939 00:47:58,389 --> 00:47:56,179 neurophysiologist knows a lot more about 940 00:48:04,949 --> 00:47:58,399 night terrors than I do but I can answer 941 00:48:09,759 --> 00:48:04,959 that question at least partially a 942 00:48:13,149 --> 00:48:09,769 nightmare happens in the dream state it 943 00:48:16,870 --> 00:48:13,159 happens during REM sleep night terrors 944 00:48:21,370 --> 00:48:16,880 do not happen during dreams okay in 945 00:48:24,279 --> 00:48:21,380 Italy it happens in non-rem in the 946 00:48:27,479 --> 00:48:24,289 alright in the nightmare it has content 947 00:48:30,669 --> 00:48:27,489 I'm afraid of something 948 00:48:32,889 --> 00:48:30,679 hmm could be a spider could be somebody 949 00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:32,899 chasing me or whatever it is there's 950 00:48:40,929 --> 00:48:37,130 content and if you wake someone up from 951 00:48:43,539 --> 00:48:40,939 and in a nightmare there may be some 952 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:43,549 moaning you might make some noises there 953 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:45,729 might be a little bit of movement but 954 00:48:52,359 --> 00:48:49,130 very very little and if you come back 955 00:48:56,279 --> 00:48:52,369 from the nightmare you often have the 956 00:49:00,339 --> 00:48:56,289 content people in having night terrors 957 00:49:05,409 --> 00:49:00,349 it's very very physiological there's 958 00:49:07,599 --> 00:49:05,419 often no content it's often difficult to 959 00:49:10,809 --> 00:49:07,609 rouse the person sometimes it can take 960 00:49:13,929 --> 00:49:10,819 as long as 20 minutes to get some and 961 00:49:16,029 --> 00:49:13,939 that's terrifying for a parent you know 962 00:49:19,449 --> 00:49:16,039 to have a child who's in this crazy 963 00:49:21,669 --> 00:49:19,459 state of screaming moving around who's 964 00:49:25,329 --> 00:49:21,679 walking around their room who's yelling 965 00:49:28,989 --> 00:49:25,339 who's soaking soaking wet with sweat 966 00:49:32,649 --> 00:49:28,999 often times and they come back and 967 00:49:35,349 --> 00:49:32,659 there's often total amnesia about the 968 00:49:37,779 --> 00:49:35,359 experience they don't have a they don't 969 00:49:42,209 --> 00:49:37,789 have content so another way to think 970 00:49:46,479 --> 00:49:42,219 about it is a nightmare is like fear 971 00:49:48,940 --> 00:49:46,489 where there's an object night terror is 972 00:49:52,210 --> 00:49:48,950 like anxiety with you 973 00:49:55,599 --> 00:49:52,220 object 'less fear psychologist college 974 00:49:57,940 --> 00:49:55,609 it's fear without any object that's what 975 00:50:00,010 --> 00:49:57,950 makes it so swen you're afraid you're 976 00:50:02,290 --> 00:50:00,020 afraid of a spider afraid of the dark 977 00:50:05,819 --> 00:50:02,300 afraid of heights are afraid of a person 978 00:50:09,099 --> 00:50:05,829 with anxiety you're just filled with 979 00:50:11,770 --> 00:50:09,109 object this fear dread but you don't 980 00:50:15,220 --> 00:50:11,780 know why you don't have some you can't 981 00:50:17,829 --> 00:50:15,230 step on the spider yeah you know that's 982 00:50:21,660 --> 00:50:17,839 what makes night terror so terrifying is 983 00:50:25,270 --> 00:50:21,670 that there's nothing there no it seems 984 00:50:28,450 --> 00:50:25,280 that you're yes it's just just this 985 00:50:31,089 --> 00:50:28,460 overwhelming terrifying anxiety does 986 00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:31,099 that make any sense yes it makes a lot 987 00:50:41,170 --> 00:50:36,650 yes this a message a dream a nightmare 988 00:50:43,390 --> 00:50:41,180 and I think if a child has I mean the 989 00:50:48,430 --> 00:50:43,400 good news is night terrors tend to go 990 00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:48,440 away now as a child grows you know but 991 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:51,410 there can be physiological reasons for 992 00:50:57,730 --> 00:50:55,130 them and you should always tell your 993 00:51:00,359 --> 00:50:57,740 pediatrician or your doctor about your 994 00:51:02,430 --> 00:51:00,369 child having night terrors and 995 00:51:04,839 --> 00:51:02,440 pediatricians who know about a 996 00:51:07,980 --> 00:51:04,849 conjectures and things that may be 997 00:51:11,050 --> 00:51:07,990 causing the night there that is not 998 00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:11,060 psychological but physiological it's 999 00:51:16,450 --> 00:51:13,490 very important information and thank you 1000 00:51:18,490 --> 00:51:16,460 so much for giving that to us tonight 1001 00:51:20,079 --> 00:51:18,500 and especially for parents they need to 1002 00:51:23,020 --> 00:51:20,089 know the difference between those two 1003 00:51:24,819 --> 00:51:23,030 things so that is very important and 1004 00:51:26,650 --> 00:51:24,829 they should be confiding with the 1005 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:26,660 pediatrician if that's happening if 1006 00:51:29,620 --> 00:51:27,890 they're having their child is having 1007 00:51:31,750 --> 00:51:29,630 night terrors this is more of a child 1008 00:51:34,059 --> 00:51:31,760 thing right night terrors not not an 1009 00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:34,069 adult thing it tends to be with children 1010 00:51:39,670 --> 00:51:37,490 but adults adults and again we had a 1011 00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:39,680 woman we had a woman at our dream 1012 00:51:46,690 --> 00:51:42,170 retreat who we didn't know before she 1013 00:51:50,710 --> 00:51:46,700 came was you know subject night terrors 1014 00:51:51,510 --> 00:51:50,720 and it was it was really scary no see an 1015 00:51:59,620 --> 00:51:51,520 adult 1016 00:52:02,350 --> 00:51:59,630 no but this see a grown woman screaming 1017 00:52:05,380 --> 00:52:02,360 and sweating and terrified and try 1018 00:52:09,180 --> 00:52:05,390 to wake her it was it was scary but 1019 00:52:13,150 --> 00:52:09,190 you're right it tends to be in children 1020 00:52:15,100 --> 00:52:13,160 and there is very interesting okay I 1021 00:52:17,310 --> 00:52:15,110 mean there are more there's more to be 1022 00:52:20,170 --> 00:52:17,320 said some psychologists think it's 1023 00:52:22,720 --> 00:52:20,180 children dealing with anxiety of 1024 00:52:27,030 --> 00:52:22,730 developmental stages and changes in 1025 00:52:30,510 --> 00:52:27,040 their life and different things but 1026 00:52:33,610 --> 00:52:30,520 pediatricians usually know about this so 1027 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:33,620 yes I think it's important as you 1028 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:36,650 mentioned to have that dialog if they 1029 00:52:39,550 --> 00:52:37,970 have children that are going through 1030 00:52:41,860 --> 00:52:39,560 something like that 1031 00:52:44,710 --> 00:52:41,870 but I love the way you described it I 1032 00:52:46,690 --> 00:52:44,720 think it's very clear to understand easy 1033 00:52:48,790 --> 00:52:46,700 to understand the way you just described 1034 00:52:51,100 --> 00:52:48,800 it for us in our audience right so we're 1035 00:52:54,490 --> 00:52:51,110 going to take another very short break 1036 00:52:56,230 --> 00:52:54,500 and if you have a question for Tom then 1037 00:53:01,050 --> 00:52:56,240 you can write it in the chat room and 1038 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:01,060 that is irn chat com that's I are in 1039 00:53:08,050 --> 00:53:05,930 chat comm and also take a look again at 1040 00:53:10,750 --> 00:53:08,060 our Facebook page give us a like and 1041 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:10,760 follow tell us what you think of those 1042 00:53:15,850 --> 00:53:14,210 balls of light maybe you can program a 1043 00:53:18,730 --> 00:53:15,860 dream about it and ask where you're 1044 00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:18,740 dreaming mine to tell you what are these 1045 00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:20,930 things and we want to hear about it we 1046 00:53:25,930 --> 00:53:23,930 want to hear what dreams you have about 1047 00:53:28,780 --> 00:53:25,940 these balls of light maybe you've got 1048 00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:28,790 the answer or you're dreaming mind the 1049 00:53:35,020 --> 00:53:31,850 answer for us so we would love to hear 1050 00:53:37,210 --> 00:53:35,030 about all of that from you guys so make 1051 00:53:40,030 --> 00:53:37,220 sure you take a look at those on our 1052 00:53:43,750 --> 00:53:40,040 Facebook page and then write us and tell 1053 00:53:45,460 --> 00:53:43,760 us what you think is going on so anyway 1054 00:53:47,130 --> 00:53:45,470 stay tuned everybody we are speaking 1055 00:53:49,590 --> 00:53:47,140 with Tom Verner tonight on the 1056 00:53:52,990 --> 00:53:49,600 transformational power of dreaming 1057 00:53:55,540 --> 00:53:53,000 discovering the wishes of the soul don't 1058 00:53:57,850 --> 00:53:55,550 we all want to know that we're listening 1059 00:53:58,660 --> 00:53:57,860 to Supernatural girls radio we'll be 1060 00:54:01,150 --> 00:53:58,670 right back 1061 00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:01,160 welcome back everyone to Supernatural 1062 00:54:06,730 --> 00:54:03,530 girls radio I'm your host Patricia Baker 1063 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:06,740 here with my co-host pk and our guest 1064 00:54:13,090 --> 00:54:10,330 tonight Tom Werner he is helping us to 1065 00:54:16,250 --> 00:54:13,100 understand the landscape of dreams now 1066 00:54:19,310 --> 00:54:16,260 we're gonna talk about dream incubation 1067 00:54:20,240 --> 00:54:19,320 how can you get an answer to your 1068 00:54:22,820 --> 00:54:20,250 questions 1069 00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:22,830 how can you program a dream Tom help us 1070 00:54:29,150 --> 00:54:25,410 out with this okay 1071 00:54:32,020 --> 00:54:29,160 so dream incubation is a term that's 1072 00:54:35,390 --> 00:54:32,030 used for a practice that has been 1073 00:54:38,810 --> 00:54:35,400 practiced by human beings for literally 1074 00:54:41,030 --> 00:54:38,820 thousands of years China India the 1075 00:54:44,050 --> 00:54:41,040 Middle East it was raised to an 1076 00:54:49,730 --> 00:54:44,060 amazingly high level in ancient Greece 1077 00:54:53,330 --> 00:54:49,740 the Iroquois had numerous Native 1078 00:54:59,990 --> 00:54:53,340 American tribes used incue bation and so 1079 00:55:02,870 --> 00:55:00,000 what it is is actually turning regarding 1080 00:55:06,470 --> 00:55:02,880 your dream your this source inside of 1081 00:55:09,740 --> 00:55:06,480 you as a source of guidance and that you 1082 00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:09,750 don't have to just be passive about it 1083 00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:12,330 but that you could prepare yourself say 1084 00:55:17,150 --> 00:55:14,610 you have a question a concern it might 1085 00:55:20,690 --> 00:55:17,160 be physical psychological spiritual 1086 00:55:25,100 --> 00:55:20,700 whatever it is that before you go to 1087 00:55:28,820 --> 00:55:25,110 sleep you formulate a question and you 1088 00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:28,830 ask your dream for a response to that 1089 00:55:35,720 --> 00:55:31,890 question and you have what James Hillman 1090 00:55:39,020 --> 00:55:35,730 called psychological faith faith in the 1091 00:55:41,750 --> 00:55:39,030 psyche that she will give you a response 1092 00:55:46,100 --> 00:55:41,760 to your question and no matter how 1093 00:55:48,830 --> 00:55:46,110 strange the response might be assume 1094 00:55:51,350 --> 00:55:48,840 that it's a response to your question 1095 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:51,360 and you may not remember a dream the 1096 00:55:58,460 --> 00:55:53,370 next morning try it again the next night 1097 00:56:02,530 --> 00:55:58,470 they in in ancient Greece around 500 BC 1098 00:56:07,190 --> 00:56:02,540 there were 300 temples around Greece 1099 00:56:09,410 --> 00:56:07,200 where people would go and sleep and ask 1100 00:56:12,500 --> 00:56:09,420 for a special dream from the god of 1101 00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:12,510 healing escalade pious but before they 1102 00:56:17,510 --> 00:56:15,210 went into the temple to sleep they would 1103 00:56:21,230 --> 00:56:17,520 talk to the temple attendant whose name 1104 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:21,240 was therapy tous where we get the word 1105 00:56:27,830 --> 00:56:25,410 therapists from and they would talk to 1106 00:56:30,230 --> 00:56:27,840 the therapy dose about their question 1107 00:56:32,810 --> 00:56:30,240 the therapy dose would help 1108 00:56:35,540 --> 00:56:32,820 clarify their question and then they 1109 00:56:40,190 --> 00:56:35,550 would go into the temple and ask for a 1110 00:56:43,250 --> 00:56:40,200 dream and it's a it's something we do we 1111 00:56:47,060 --> 00:56:43,260 have a little house it's only ten by ten 1112 00:56:50,780 --> 00:56:47,070 on our property that's only for dreaming 1113 00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:50,790 it's only it's only a dream incubation 1114 00:56:57,260 --> 00:56:53,970 house and people will come and sleep in 1115 00:56:58,900 --> 00:56:57,270 there during our retreats we prepare 1116 00:57:02,120 --> 00:56:58,910 someone they spend the whole day 1117 00:57:04,490 --> 00:57:02,130 clarifying in the dream house clarifying 1118 00:57:06,710 --> 00:57:04,500 their question I'll go and talk with 1119 00:57:09,589 --> 00:57:06,720 them they'll do solitary walks 1120 00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:09,599 clarifying and then the group works with 1121 00:57:16,820 --> 00:57:14,010 them at night and then in a torch lit 1122 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:16,830 procession we take them to the dream 1123 00:57:22,640 --> 00:57:19,530 house and someone goes in with them who 1124 00:57:27,050 --> 00:57:22,650 tucks them in and they ask for a dream 1125 00:57:29,900 --> 00:57:27,060 and it's been astonishing when you when 1126 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:29,910 you give the dream that kind of regard 1127 00:57:36,260 --> 00:57:32,130 and that kind of reverence and that kind 1128 00:57:39,589 --> 00:57:36,270 of respect what it gives you so that's 1129 00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:39,599 roughly what dream incubation I had a 1130 00:57:45,530 --> 00:57:42,690 thought that maybe your listeners could 1131 00:57:49,700 --> 00:57:45,540 go to the is that on the Facebook page 1132 00:57:54,290 --> 00:57:49,710 and look at yes look at those balls of 1133 00:57:56,300 --> 00:57:54,300 light mine spent some time like looking 1134 00:57:58,670 --> 00:57:56,310 at them being in their presence the 1135 00:58:02,180 --> 00:57:58,680 photograph or the picture whatever it is 1136 00:58:06,710 --> 00:58:02,190 and then when you go to sleep tonight or 1137 00:58:09,589 --> 00:58:06,720 tomorrow night ask for some additional 1138 00:58:12,470 --> 00:58:09,599 information some image some guidance 1139 00:58:15,109 --> 00:58:12,480 about what these balls of light could 1140 00:58:17,990 --> 00:58:15,119 possibly be and it would be really 1141 00:58:21,440 --> 00:58:18,000 wonderful if people would then send 1142 00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:21,450 their the dreams they came up with to 1143 00:58:28,099 --> 00:58:24,570 the Facebook page you know and and just 1144 00:58:30,829 --> 00:58:28,109 love that yeah I think it could be 1145 00:58:34,460 --> 00:58:30,839 really exciting to see what it shows I 1146 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:34,470 think this is a great idea at Tom and PK 1147 00:58:39,650 --> 00:58:36,810 and I are going to post this again so 1148 00:58:42,140 --> 00:58:39,660 that people can can do what you're 1149 00:58:43,670 --> 00:58:42,150 suggesting it would be wonderful to read 1150 00:58:46,130 --> 00:58:43,680 everybody's 1151 00:58:48,200 --> 00:58:46,140 rheems as they ask the question what are 1152 00:58:49,849 --> 00:58:48,210 these balls of light or however they 1153 00:58:52,579 --> 00:58:49,859 want to frame the question is fine and 1154 00:58:56,089 --> 00:58:52,589 just let us know this will set up a 1155 00:58:58,609 --> 00:58:56,099 whole new dialogue and again this show 1156 00:59:03,200 --> 00:58:58,619 is all about where paranormal is normal 1157 00:59:05,299 --> 00:59:03,210 so being able to interpret something 1158 00:59:07,730 --> 00:59:05,309 like that or find out the truth about a 1159 00:59:09,500 --> 00:59:07,740 paranormal event through dreaming what a 1160 00:59:11,809 --> 00:59:09,510 wonderful way to do that and again I 1161 00:59:14,150 --> 00:59:11,819 want to keep encouraging everybody to 1162 00:59:17,089 --> 00:59:14,160 pay attention to their dreams do the 1163 00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:17,099 dream work and you're gonna benefit so 1164 00:59:21,440 --> 00:59:19,170 much from it and here's a wonderful way 1165 00:59:23,180 --> 00:59:21,450 that we can all join together and see 1166 00:59:26,530 --> 00:59:23,190 what our dreams tell us about these 1167 00:59:29,180 --> 00:59:26,540 balls of light I'm gonna do that 1168 00:59:34,339 --> 00:59:29,190 audience to this oh yeah we'll make a 1169 00:59:36,410 --> 00:59:34,349 chalice I'll do it also what what I 1170 00:59:39,950 --> 00:59:36,420 think might be happening you know is 1171 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:39,960 when we fall asleep and that's an 1172 00:59:44,750 --> 00:59:42,210 interesting word that we use you know 1173 00:59:46,790 --> 00:59:44,760 and it shows up in other languages we 1174 00:59:50,420 --> 00:59:46,800 don't ascend to sleep we don't go 1175 00:59:52,990 --> 00:59:50,430 sideways to sleep we fall into sin yeah 1176 00:59:57,380 --> 00:59:53,000 never thought both down you know some 1177 00:59:59,390 --> 00:59:57,390 maybe some reference to the old idea 1178 01:00:02,089 --> 00:59:59,400 that we went down into the underworld 1179 01:00:05,210 --> 01:00:02,099 during our during dreams or or whatever 1180 01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:05,220 but I think whatever that means part of 1181 01:00:13,220 --> 01:00:09,210 the following is that the ego loses its 1182 01:00:15,799 --> 01:00:13,230 grip on our consciousness and in this 1183 01:00:19,130 --> 01:00:15,809 we're in a state that isn't controlled 1184 01:00:22,069 --> 01:00:19,140 by one way of seeing things and so we're 1185 01:00:24,730 --> 01:00:22,079 open to other sources of information and 1186 01:00:28,940 --> 01:00:24,740 possibilities and imagination and 1187 01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:28,950 perspectives and I think that's one of 1188 01:00:35,750 --> 01:00:31,290 the things that makes dream so powerful 1189 01:00:39,740 --> 01:00:35,760 is it it's a door well Jung said it it 1190 01:00:43,609 --> 01:00:39,750 it's um the dream is a secret little 1191 01:00:47,359 --> 01:00:43,619 door hidden in the deepest recesses of 1192 01:00:51,020 --> 01:00:47,369 the psyche that opens out into cosmic 1193 01:00:54,049 --> 01:00:51,030 night he said hmm and and I think 1194 01:00:57,590 --> 01:00:54,059 through that door all kinds of things 1195 01:01:00,740 --> 01:00:57,600 come and we can go through that door 1196 01:01:04,070 --> 01:01:00,750 I would just like to tell one dream that 1197 01:01:06,790 --> 01:01:04,080 I think your listeners might be 1198 01:01:09,740 --> 01:01:06,800 interested in from my answer please 1199 01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:09,750 yes and it changed my way of 1200 01:01:15,920 --> 01:01:12,810 understanding the world I mean that's 1201 01:01:18,740 --> 01:01:15,930 how big this dream was I was in Union 1202 01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:18,750 analysis with this yummy-yum analyst who 1203 01:01:24,140 --> 01:01:20,850 had worked with young in Switzerland and 1204 01:01:25,880 --> 01:01:24,150 then she opened up a residential 1205 01:01:29,870 --> 01:01:25,890 treatment center in Litchfield 1206 01:01:32,260 --> 01:01:29,880 Connecticut yeah for young schizophrenic 1207 01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:32,270 sand I worked there with her as a 1208 01:01:38,930 --> 01:01:35,730 therapist and I was also an analysis 1209 01:01:41,330 --> 01:01:38,940 with her for a number of years and then 1210 01:01:43,820 --> 01:01:41,340 I moved to British Columbia and I lived 1211 01:01:45,830 --> 01:01:43,830 on an island in British Columbia for a 1212 01:01:50,990 --> 01:01:45,840 number of years I woke up one morning 1213 01:01:53,510 --> 01:01:51,000 with a dream and the dream is that I'm 1214 01:01:56,150 --> 01:01:53,520 standing that we had a little conference 1215 01:01:59,150 --> 01:01:56,160 center on the property of this 1216 01:02:00,260 --> 01:01:59,160 residential treatment center where Renee 1217 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:00,270 that was her name 1218 01:02:05,450 --> 01:02:03,330 would do little conferences and courses 1219 01:02:08,870 --> 01:02:05,460 and workshops on dreams and union 1220 01:02:11,930 --> 01:02:08,880 psychology in my dream Renee 1221 01:02:16,490 --> 01:02:11,940 there's a circle of people she's about 1222 01:02:18,290 --> 01:02:16,500 to begin a workshop on dreams and out of 1223 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:18,300 the kitchen comes the cook 1224 01:02:24,560 --> 01:02:20,730 Joni and she says there's a phone call 1225 01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:24,570 for you Renee and so Renee gets up goes 1226 01:02:30,830 --> 01:02:27,690 into the kitchen and I know like you 1227 01:02:33,860 --> 01:02:30,840 know in dreams sometimes that the dream 1228 01:02:37,790 --> 01:02:33,870 is about the death of her brother I also 1229 01:02:40,730 --> 01:02:37,800 know from from knowing her that this was 1230 01:02:44,690 --> 01:02:40,740 her last living relative and it was 1231 01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:44,700 really gonna be a difficult news for her 1232 01:02:50,900 --> 01:02:48,450 she comes out of the kitchen I walk over 1233 01:02:53,810 --> 01:02:50,910 to her in the dream and I give her a hug 1234 01:02:56,180 --> 01:02:53,820 and I say I'm really really sorry to 1235 01:02:57,980 --> 01:02:56,190 hear about Carlos's death and she says 1236 01:03:00,770 --> 01:02:57,990 thank you very much and gives me a big 1237 01:03:05,450 --> 01:03:00,780 hug back and it's just a beautiful 1238 01:03:08,450 --> 01:03:05,460 moment and the dream ends so I write it 1239 01:03:11,000 --> 01:03:08,460 down three months later I come back to 1240 01:03:12,830 --> 01:03:11,010 the East Coast and I 1241 01:03:15,380 --> 01:03:12,840 Renae and she says why don't we have 1242 01:03:18,740 --> 01:03:15,390 dinner together so we sit down we have 1243 01:03:20,900 --> 01:03:18,750 dinner and in the course of dinner she 1244 01:03:23,390 --> 01:03:20,910 says have you had any interesting dreams 1245 01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:23,400 lately which was a question she asked me 1246 01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:26,130 many many times it wasn't a strange 1247 01:03:31,490 --> 01:03:29,730 thing for her to ask me and I said as a 1248 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:31,500 matter of fact I had a dream about you 1249 01:03:38,630 --> 01:03:34,970 and I told her the dream I just told you 1250 01:03:42,290 --> 01:03:38,640 and she said when was that and I took 1251 01:03:46,550 --> 01:03:42,300 out my dream journal and I looked it up 1252 01:03:49,610 --> 01:03:46,560 and I said it was October 21st she takes 1253 01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:49,620 out her appointment book and she says 1254 01:03:55,580 --> 01:03:53,930 that's exactly what was happening that 1255 01:03:59,210 --> 01:03:55,590 litchfield kinetic 1256 01:04:02,390 --> 01:03:59,220 ah you know I was in that circle Joni 1257 01:04:04,460 --> 01:04:02,400 came out said you have a phone call it 1258 01:04:07,970 --> 01:04:04,470 was about Carlos's death she said that's 1259 01:04:10,610 --> 01:04:07,980 interesting enough she said but what's 1260 01:04:13,250 --> 01:04:10,620 really interesting was when I was coming 1261 01:04:16,100 --> 01:04:13,260 out of the kitchen walking back to the 1262 01:04:19,220 --> 01:04:16,110 circle I was going to say I just don't 1263 01:04:22,100 --> 01:04:19,230 have the strength to go on with the 1264 01:04:24,650 --> 01:04:22,110 workshop right now I need some time but 1265 01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:24,660 somewhere between that teach and door 1266 01:04:32,830 --> 01:04:29,250 and my seat I got strength and now I 1267 01:04:36,740 --> 01:04:32,840 know where that strength came oh my god 1268 01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:36,750 fabulous and and she got up from the 1269 01:04:41,210 --> 01:04:39,210 table and walked over and gave me this 1270 01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:41,220 big hug in this restaurant and said 1271 01:04:47,150 --> 01:04:44,130 thank you and sat down and we ended up 1272 01:04:51,530 --> 01:04:47,160 having this conversation and part of the 1273 01:04:54,470 --> 01:04:51,540 conversation was how often does this 1274 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:54,480 happen you know I think it happens all 1275 01:04:59,840 --> 01:04:56,490 the time but we just happen to have a 1276 01:05:02,990 --> 01:04:59,850 relationship where she would ask me I I 1277 01:05:05,420 --> 01:05:03,000 didn't even say to her Renee I had a 1278 01:05:07,790 --> 01:05:05,430 dream the way I think about I can't 1279 01:05:09,590 --> 01:05:07,800 explain that I can't explain you can 1280 01:05:12,620 --> 01:05:09,600 call it out-of-body travel or you can 1281 01:05:15,050 --> 01:05:12,630 call it whatever but it felt like here 1282 01:05:17,210 --> 01:05:15,060 was a woman I mean this is just so 1283 01:05:21,830 --> 01:05:17,220 wonderful here was a woman who helped me 1284 01:05:24,740 --> 01:05:21,840 so much in my life as my analyst and I'm 1285 01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:24,750 there in British Columbia three 1286 01:05:32,650 --> 01:05:27,450 thousand miles away kind of like Clark 1287 01:05:37,660 --> 01:05:32,660 Kent you know down the street my Oh 1288 01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:40,550 some part of me that loved her and that 1289 01:05:50,780 --> 01:05:46,530 knew she was hurting smooth air a hug I 1290 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:50,790 mean that's astonishing it is it is what 1291 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:53,730 a beautiful experience that you had and 1292 01:05:58,250 --> 01:05:55,530 like you said this may be happening all 1293 01:06:00,310 --> 01:05:58,260 the time but we need to pay attention to 1294 01:06:05,510 --> 01:06:00,320 our dreams and have these conversations 1295 01:06:08,810 --> 01:06:05,520 so that the next step can unfold so this 1296 01:06:12,500 --> 01:06:08,820 is beautiful beautiful event that you 1297 01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:12,510 and she had together Wow all I can say 1298 01:06:17,930 --> 01:06:14,970 about it is I can't explain it and the 1299 01:06:20,570 --> 01:06:17,940 explanations are not as powerful as the 1300 01:06:23,630 --> 01:06:20,580 experience you know in many ways yes but 1301 01:06:27,050 --> 01:06:23,640 there's more going on than meets the eye 1302 01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:27,060 that's for sure and in this dream in 1303 01:06:33,710 --> 01:06:30,690 this great state it's a there's a door 1304 01:06:36,230 --> 01:06:33,720 and we can do all kinds of things I 1305 01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:36,240 think like go to Litchfield Rita and 1306 01:06:42,230 --> 01:06:39,090 what's interesting was it was exactly 1307 01:06:43,820 --> 01:06:42,240 the same time it was six o'clock a.m. oh 1308 01:06:47,060 --> 01:06:43,830 wow 1309 01:06:50,870 --> 01:06:47,070 Island and nine o'clock in which I don't 1310 01:06:52,670 --> 01:06:50,880 think it necessarily had to be because 1311 01:06:56,440 --> 01:06:52,680 the dreams can do interesting things 1312 01:07:00,410 --> 01:06:56,450 with nine space but it happened to be 1313 01:07:05,480 --> 01:07:00,420 just when that was happening and hoping 1314 01:07:08,030 --> 01:07:05,490 I'd get there how did I know that yes it 1315 01:07:09,950 --> 01:07:08,040 is incredible that it really speaks to 1316 01:07:13,220 --> 01:07:09,960 that we are all connected and especially 1317 01:07:16,220 --> 01:07:13,230 you had such a love and respect for each 1318 01:07:19,790 --> 01:07:16,230 other and so you responded to something 1319 01:07:23,660 --> 01:07:19,800 somewhere just a beautiful event just 1320 01:07:27,070 --> 01:07:23,670 beautiful and again I believe Tom we can 1321 01:07:29,630 --> 01:07:27,080 all have these types of experiences but 1322 01:07:32,780 --> 01:07:29,640 we do need to pay attention to our 1323 01:07:35,780 --> 01:07:32,790 dreams keep the dream journal top people 1324 01:07:38,570 --> 01:07:35,790 about our dreams develop very more than 1325 01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:38,580 our own friendships have it happen 1326 01:07:43,190 --> 01:07:41,490 if you have a dream about somebody and 1327 01:07:45,770 --> 01:07:43,200 you have to be careful about this 1328 01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:45,780 because you know sometimes the dreams 1329 01:07:50,270 --> 01:07:47,730 are people are gonna think they're 1330 01:07:53,780 --> 01:07:50,280 really weird but sometimes it's really 1331 01:07:55,220 --> 01:07:53,790 important to tell a person I had a dream 1332 01:07:59,990 --> 01:07:55,230 about you last night 1333 01:08:02,690 --> 01:08:00,000 cuz the dream might be for them yes fool 1334 01:08:05,990 --> 01:08:02,700 you but it might be their dream that it 1335 01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:06,000 could be yes it has happened it has 1336 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:09,210 absolutely so it's so important and 1337 01:08:14,030 --> 01:08:12,330 again your book details a lot of the 1338 01:08:17,390 --> 01:08:14,040 techniques and the tools that people 1339 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:17,400 need to begin this journey or to start 1340 01:08:21,650 --> 01:08:19,170 it up when they maybe they started this 1341 01:08:24,110 --> 01:08:21,660 a while ago put it away time to dust it 1342 01:08:26,270 --> 01:08:24,120 off and bring it back around so this is 1343 01:08:28,579 --> 01:08:26,280 a book to get the transformational power 1344 01:08:30,890 --> 01:08:28,589 of dreaming I've got a bunch more 1345 01:08:32,180 --> 01:08:30,900 questions from the chat room also let me 1346 01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:32,190 see if I can get to just a couple 1347 01:08:36,860 --> 01:08:34,410 somebody wants to know can you actually 1348 01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:36,870 die for real in a dream so if I guess 1349 01:08:44,440 --> 01:08:38,370 who they're asking is if you dream about 1350 01:08:51,710 --> 01:08:48,470 death in a dream is more often than not 1351 01:08:56,360 --> 01:08:51,720 has nothing to do with physical death it 1352 01:09:01,220 --> 01:08:56,370 really has to do with change and then a 1353 01:09:03,920 --> 01:09:01,230 big dying to one and something new and 1354 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:03,930 that's that's the best possible way to 1355 01:09:13,039 --> 01:09:08,850 think about death in a dream I imagine 1356 01:09:16,700 --> 01:09:13,049 people have died in you know a dream 1357 01:09:19,160 --> 01:09:16,710 state but we don't know because right 1358 01:09:23,210 --> 01:09:19,170 it'd be hard to know wouldn't it be hard 1359 01:09:26,900 --> 01:09:23,220 to know but I certainly now have died in 1360 01:09:30,170 --> 01:09:26,910 their dreams and woke up and and it 1361 01:09:34,400 --> 01:09:30,180 really did have to the word dream and 1362 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:34,410 the word drama come from exactly the 1363 01:09:41,510 --> 01:09:39,930 same etymological root so if dreams want 1364 01:09:44,480 --> 01:09:41,520 to tell us something they're gonna tell 1365 01:09:48,490 --> 01:09:44,490 us something in a dramatic kind of way 1366 01:09:51,239 --> 01:09:48,500 and if changes is coming they're gonna 1367 01:09:54,839 --> 01:09:51,249 present it as death 1368 01:09:59,580 --> 01:09:54,849 often times oh but you know I think if 1369 01:10:01,529 --> 01:09:59,590 someone dreams about Abraham Lincoln you 1370 01:10:03,810 --> 01:10:01,539 know four days before he was 1371 01:10:06,689 --> 01:10:03,820 assassinated it had a dream he came down 1372 01:10:08,669 --> 01:10:06,699 the stairs and there was this hush sad 1373 01:10:11,819 --> 01:10:08,679 feeling in the White House and there was 1374 01:10:14,129 --> 01:10:11,829 someone standing outside the room where 1375 01:10:17,100 --> 01:10:14,139 this hush this kind of something was 1376 01:10:19,229 --> 01:10:17,110 going on and he said what's going on in 1377 01:10:23,399 --> 01:10:19,239 there and they said the president's been 1378 01:10:27,779 --> 01:10:23,409 killed that was Lincoln's dream four 1379 01:10:33,919 --> 01:10:27,789 days before he was killed yes that's 1380 01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:33,929 right you can dream about yes awesome 1381 01:10:39,750 --> 01:10:37,210 yeah let me just mention I feel little 1382 01:10:41,850 --> 01:10:39,760 dreams go ahead yeah I just wanted to 1383 01:10:44,790 --> 01:10:41,860 say to everybody out in our audience 1384 01:10:46,859 --> 01:10:44,800 tonight that I know a lot of people are 1385 01:10:50,370 --> 01:10:46,869 interested in becoming more psychic more 1386 01:10:52,469 --> 01:10:50,380 intuitive this is a great way to do it I 1387 01:10:55,709 --> 01:10:52,479 mean if you pay attention to your dreams 1388 01:10:59,459 --> 01:10:55,719 you can become precognitive I remember a 1389 01:11:01,469 --> 01:10:59,469 week before 9/11 happened and I had said 1390 01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:01,479 to my husband there was going to be a 1391 01:11:06,060 --> 01:11:03,610 terrorist attack on American soil he 1392 01:11:08,339 --> 01:11:06,070 left his hat off at me oh you thought 1393 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:08,349 that was the stupidest thing I ever said 1394 01:11:13,950 --> 01:11:11,610 and yet a week later my dream came 1395 01:11:16,529 --> 01:11:13,960 unfortunately true this is what happened 1396 01:11:19,169 --> 01:11:16,539 so again I've worked with my dreams for 1397 01:11:21,750 --> 01:11:19,179 many many years and so I this is true 1398 01:11:24,689 --> 01:11:21,760 for everybody that I know and everybody 1399 01:11:28,620 --> 01:11:24,699 I've worked with with dreams you can 1400 01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:28,630 become precognitive you can become more 1401 01:11:32,939 --> 01:11:31,210 intuitive more psychic through paying 1402 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:32,949 attention to your dreams it is so 1403 01:11:37,140 --> 01:11:35,050 worthwhile I want to urge everybody to 1404 01:11:40,649 --> 01:11:37,150 do that so go ahead time you wanted to 1405 01:11:46,169 --> 01:11:40,659 share something I just I just wanted to 1406 01:11:49,169 --> 01:11:46,179 say that my teacher James Hillman used 1407 01:11:51,770 --> 01:11:49,179 to like to say any meaning that we get 1408 01:11:55,020 --> 01:11:51,780 from a dream is one of many 1409 01:11:58,500 --> 01:11:55,030 possibilities at the end of a good dream 1410 01:12:00,899 --> 01:11:58,510 session if I'm working with someone the 1411 01:12:03,029 --> 01:12:00,909 ending is that they got something really 1412 01:12:05,100 --> 01:12:03,039 valuable that was useful and helpful in 1413 01:12:07,550 --> 01:12:05,110 their life and yet there's still 1414 01:12:11,580 --> 01:12:07,560 this sense that there's so much more 1415 01:12:14,700 --> 01:12:11,590 that the dream has to give us and I just 1416 01:12:17,310 --> 01:12:14,710 wanted to say that an example of how 1417 01:12:20,459 --> 01:12:17,320 dreams can mean different things on 1418 01:12:22,800 --> 01:12:20,469 different levels a woman comes into my 1419 01:12:27,060 --> 01:12:22,810 office she tells me a dream she's 1420 01:12:30,390 --> 01:12:27,070 driving along the highway she exits a 1421 01:12:34,439 --> 01:12:30,400 right exit that goes down the hill the 1422 01:12:36,959 --> 01:12:34,449 exit stops at a crossroad at E there's a 1423 01:12:40,410 --> 01:12:36,969 traffic light and she's going down the 1424 01:12:42,629 --> 01:12:40,420 hill there's traffic going and she puts 1425 01:12:47,220 --> 01:12:42,639 on her brakes and she has no brakes and 1426 01:12:50,430 --> 01:12:47,230 she wakes up terrified not an unusual 1427 01:12:54,030 --> 01:12:50,440 dream so she tells me that during the 1428 01:12:57,720 --> 01:12:54,040 first thing I say to her is have you had 1429 01:13:01,680 --> 01:12:57,730 your brakes checked lately and she's 1430 01:13:04,050 --> 01:13:01,690 fine she laughs and and she said no I 1431 01:13:06,629 --> 01:13:04,060 think they're fine you know but I'm 1432 01:13:09,060 --> 01:13:06,639 having my car inspected next week and 1433 01:13:12,090 --> 01:13:09,070 they'll check the brakes I said good so 1434 01:13:14,070 --> 01:13:12,100 then I went to the next thing which is I 1435 01:13:15,060 --> 01:13:14,080 would encourage your listeners to do 1436 01:13:18,530 --> 01:13:15,070 with their dreams 1437 01:13:22,740 --> 01:13:18,540 what's your association with that exit 1438 01:13:25,290 --> 01:13:22,750 sigourney Street exit then she said to 1439 01:13:28,379 --> 01:13:25,300 me well that's where I get off to visit 1440 01:13:30,870 --> 01:13:28,389 my new boyfriend John she had been in a 1441 01:13:33,419 --> 01:13:30,880 relationship with about three months at 1442 01:13:35,729 --> 01:13:33,429 that point and I said to her house that 1443 01:13:38,850 --> 01:13:35,739 relationship going and totally 1444 01:13:41,939 --> 01:13:38,860 unconsciously she says to me she says 1445 01:13:46,169 --> 01:13:41,949 well I'm afraid I'm doing what I often 1446 01:13:48,629 --> 01:13:46,179 do I'm going too fast in in the 1447 01:13:51,300 --> 01:13:48,639 relationship it feels out of control 1448 01:13:54,120 --> 01:13:51,310 I'd like to slow it down maybe even stop 1449 01:13:57,240 --> 01:13:54,130 it for a while but I can't it's just out 1450 01:14:01,109 --> 01:13:57,250 of control no connection whatsoever it's 1451 01:14:03,169 --> 01:14:01,119 in the dream all right I saw Mike good 1452 01:14:05,669 --> 01:14:03,179 he just said to her I said do you feel 1453 01:14:07,890 --> 01:14:05,679 been in the relationship the way you 1454 01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:07,900 felt in the car when you couldn't stop 1455 01:14:14,700 --> 01:14:11,170 and she said yes and we talked and she 1456 01:14:17,430 --> 01:14:14,710 said you know I'd like to talk with John 1457 01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:17,440 about it but I'm afraid he's gonna think 1458 01:14:20,580 --> 01:14:18,370 I want to end 1459 01:14:23,100 --> 01:14:20,590 relationship and I just want to slow it 1460 01:14:25,230 --> 01:14:23,110 down a little bit because I do this over 1461 01:14:28,350 --> 01:14:25,240 and over and I end relationships because 1462 01:14:30,570 --> 01:14:28,360 I go too far too fast in the dreams so 1463 01:14:32,580 --> 01:14:30,580 she comes back the next week she sits 1464 01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:32,590 down she has this little sheepish smile 1465 01:14:39,690 --> 01:14:37,090 on her face she said you know my 1466 01:14:49,950 --> 01:14:39,700 mechanic said I had no brake pads 1467 01:14:53,640 --> 01:14:49,960 whatsoever it was meh and so hmm 1468 01:14:57,150 --> 01:14:53,650 so then I said she said I had that talk 1469 01:14:59,670 --> 01:14:57,160 with John about slowing down and she 1470 01:15:02,040 --> 01:14:59,680 said he wanted to do the same thing he 1471 01:15:04,260 --> 01:15:02,050 just felt so much pressure and we were 1472 01:15:06,330 --> 01:15:04,270 going too fast and he thought I was 1473 01:15:08,180 --> 01:15:06,340 gonna ask him could I move in and let's 1474 01:15:10,980 --> 01:15:08,190 get married 1475 01:15:14,730 --> 01:15:10,990 so we Jen and we talked about that for 1476 01:15:19,440 --> 01:15:14,740 many sessions to go but the way I kind 1477 01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:19,450 of think about it is story editors like 1478 01:15:26,310 --> 01:15:22,930 in Hollywood who make up the plot of a 1479 01:15:28,770 --> 01:15:26,320 movie I think during those dreams come 1480 01:15:30,840 --> 01:15:28,780 every 90 minutes throughout the night 1481 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:30,850 it's a it's a whole other conversation 1482 01:15:36,150 --> 01:15:33,690 we could have about what's going on 1483 01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:36,160 amazingly in the body when we're 1484 01:15:41,610 --> 01:15:39,130 dreaming but anyhow during those 80 1485 01:15:44,430 --> 01:15:41,620 minutes or so before the dream begins 1486 01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:44,440 there the story editors sitting around 1487 01:15:50,790 --> 01:15:47,730 in our sights and one of them the really 1488 01:15:52,410 --> 01:15:50,800 practical dude on the committee says you 1489 01:15:54,720 --> 01:15:52,420 know we got to talk to her about her 1490 01:15:57,150 --> 01:15:54,730 brakes because it's not equipment a 1491 01:15:59,820 --> 01:15:57,160 fixer breaks it doesn't matter all this 1492 01:16:02,820 --> 01:15:59,830 technological stuff she's gonna be dead 1493 01:16:05,730 --> 01:16:02,830 okay and there's a person writing down 1494 01:16:09,180 --> 01:16:05,740 ideas and then the sensitive probably 1495 01:16:11,580 --> 01:16:09,190 woman relationship person says you know 1496 01:16:13,770 --> 01:16:11,590 she's out of control again in her 1497 01:16:15,420 --> 01:16:13,780 relationship with John we got to slow 1498 01:16:17,700 --> 01:16:15,430 her down she's gonna ruin that 1499 01:16:20,520 --> 01:16:17,710 relationship like she's ruined the last 1500 01:16:23,100 --> 01:16:20,530 four so there write that down and now 1501 01:16:25,500 --> 01:16:23,110 the clock is ticking REM is about this 1502 01:16:28,080 --> 01:16:25,510 start and they say then the creative 1503 01:16:30,660 --> 01:16:28,090 person on the committee says here I got 1504 01:16:31,740 --> 01:16:30,670 an idea whatever going along route 84 1505 01:16:40,230 --> 01:16:31,750 exit 1506 01:16:42,420 --> 01:16:40,240 can't stop and in the can drop the dream 1507 01:16:44,580 --> 01:16:42,430 in the psyche and off we go 1508 01:16:46,740 --> 01:16:44,590 and it's talking about the most 1509 01:16:50,790 --> 01:16:46,750 practical thing and it's talking about 1510 01:16:54,450 --> 01:16:50,800 this ongoing life issue both at the same 1511 01:16:55,940 --> 01:16:54,460 time and dreams are immensely creative 1512 01:17:00,150 --> 01:16:55,950 and that's a whole other topic 1513 01:17:02,490 --> 01:17:00,160 creativity but it's so important I mean 1514 01:17:06,830 --> 01:17:02,500 again this is why we need to pay 1515 01:17:09,270 --> 01:17:06,840 attention and I'm so glad that you and 1516 01:17:12,600 --> 01:17:09,280 Steven wrote this book together because 1517 01:17:14,550 --> 01:17:12,610 it really people need people need your 1518 01:17:19,200 --> 01:17:14,560 book people need to understand the power 1519 01:17:21,810 --> 01:17:19,210 that's in you know if they want this 1520 01:17:24,210 --> 01:17:21,820 type of relationship with cosmic 1521 01:17:26,850 --> 01:17:24,220 consciousness this is a way to get it 1522 01:17:29,370 --> 01:17:26,860 and what better way than to pay 1523 01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:29,380 attention to your very own dreams it's 1524 01:17:35,550 --> 01:17:32,530 so important this is important work it's 1525 01:17:36,420 --> 01:17:35,560 fun work its mouthful it'll save your 1526 01:17:40,290 --> 01:17:36,430 life 1527 01:17:42,750 --> 01:17:40,300 you know it's save your relationships is 1528 01:17:45,090 --> 01:17:42,760 what could I mean there's nothing better 1529 01:17:47,010 --> 01:17:45,100 in my opinion then dream work and Tom 1530 01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:47,020 again thank you so much this has gone 1531 01:17:52,130 --> 01:17:50,170 way too fast this show is way too short 1532 01:17:57,390 --> 01:17:52,140 we're gonna have to have you come back 1533 01:18:00,300 --> 01:17:57,400 because it's so much more to talk about 1534 01:18:01,890 --> 01:18:00,310 and you definitely have you back but 1535 01:18:04,050 --> 01:18:01,900 anyways I'm sorry everybody I know 1536 01:18:05,700 --> 01:18:04,060 either a ton more questions in the chat 1537 01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:05,710 room and they were all good questions 1538 01:18:10,280 --> 01:18:07,210 I'm sorry you couldn't get to you all 1539 01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:10,290 tonight but do get a copy of Tom's 1540 01:18:16,380 --> 01:18:13,930 terrific book yeah again true is the 1541 01:18:18,620 --> 01:18:16,390 transformational power of dreaming 1542 01:18:21,780 --> 01:18:18,630 discovering the wishes of the soul it's 1543 01:18:24,270 --> 01:18:21,790 great and keep your dream journal take a 1544 01:18:26,460 --> 01:18:24,280 look at those lights on the driveway and 1545 01:18:30,780 --> 01:18:26,470 we're all going to do some dreaming on 1546 01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:30,790 this to figure it out what we want to 1547 01:18:38,010 --> 01:18:33,850 know it's this paranormal event has to 1548 01:18:40,050 --> 01:18:38,020 do with us all of us so we're gonna find 1549 01:18:41,850 --> 01:18:40,060 out and then in the meantime everybody 1550 01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:41,860 will be back next week with another new 1551 01:18:45,000 --> 01:18:44,050 show we caught going back to talking 1552 01:18:46,589 --> 01:18:45,010 about alien 1553 01:18:49,259 --> 01:18:46,599 we have a lady coming in she's gonna 1554 01:18:51,270 --> 01:18:49,269 fascinate you all about aliens 1555 01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:51,280 earthquakes hurricanes we're gonna do it 1556 01:18:56,580 --> 01:18:54,489 all next week in the meantime we'll see 1557 01:18:58,130 --> 01:18:56,590 you on the blue Highway good night